Help What have I done with 26 gambling addiction lost everything
4th Jul. 2020, at 01:57 am CEST#1
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Hello, I am extremely confused since I somehow just woke up now
I am 26 years old live with my girlfriend and have been addicted to online casino gambling for 1 year I do not want it anymore every day I gamble money that I do not even own pay off debts and then gamble again I have really never won anything big 2 times 1000€ paid out but certainly already deposited 10,000€ I feel cheated I feel empty have 7000€ Debt and must somehow pay off and the credit card has hefty interest. I really just want to stop I will probably never get my money back I know that but every time with each Deposit I think to myself now comes the Jackpot and nothing comes I lie to my girlfriend have not told her and can not that would mean the end I really want to do it alone without professional help just by you and by me anonymously and not by inpatient therapy then everyone would know it is already enough then I have to pay my debts as a I can not reschedule as a student I get Bafög and work I'm currently looking like a madman so it works with the installments I'm at the end and just want a normal life without gambling without debt without depression 7000 € depress me extremely the gambling even more it was just stupid and you really should not gamble whether you have money or not play is extremely dangerous and most 99% have debts even if they do not want to admit it I do not know what I should do for now i have blocked me everywhere and play now also no more it is enough for me no matter what I would win it goes all double again purely a vicious circle it does not stop I am myself to blame because I have let myself in on the game with the devil he always wins otherwise no Online Casinos or gambling houses would grow on every corner they must win otherwise they would all be broke after 2 hours it is fraud 100% because if it were coincidence then they would have a chance of 50/50 to stay in the market but because it is manipulated they have a chance of 90/10 and that's why they stay and earn millions per week easily I don't care now I'm myself to blame please stop gambling to all believe me I rather stop now before I have so much debt that I'm out of the window don't gamble at all and have fun in life I have to pay off this 7k now and then have my peace of mind have a nice evening and stay free from gambling this goes explicitly to young people believe me let it be ciao
How cute all the young gamblers are. It is not possible to escape! Either one comes to terms with the fact that one has this inclination, or one reveals oneself to all confidants and abolishes one's online banking including all bank cards. Two to three years without the possibility to gamble should be enough to get away from it "by itself"!
The desire to play for money, if it is once there, will not go, if one writes here a contribution, by stating that one does not want it now any more. Keeping it a secret from your life partner makes things much more complicated. Even if after the revelation it bangs quite loudly, then it is worth that one has talked about it. Incidentally, this is also how you recognize true love... (isn't that nice)
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4th Jul. 2020, at 09:37 am CEST#5
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I can understand you. I give you the Tip to tell your girlfriend, she will understand and stand by you. I made 50.000€ debts by Online Casinos myself. Since I told my wife and family I feel better and I don't touch the shit anymore. If you live together then it will also ensure that she spends less money, I say pointlessly because she knows you have debts.
You just have to stay strong and stop gambling. The money is gone, the chance to get it back is zero. Slots are there to reward a few players and rip off the masses in return
DavidNo94 wrote on 04/07/2020 at 01:57: Hello, I am extremely confused as I somehow just woke up now
I am 26 years old live with my girlfriend and have been addicted to online casino gambling for 1 year I don't want to do this anymore every day I gamble money that I don't even own I pay off debts and then gamble again I really never won anything big 2 times 1000€ paid out but certainly already 10.000€ deposited I feel cheated I feel empty I have 7000€ debts and have to pay them off somehow and the credit card has hefty interest. I really just want to stop I will probably never get my money back I know that but every time with each Deposit I think to myself now comes the Jackpot and nothing comes I lie to my girlfriend have not told her and can not that would mean the end I really want to do it alone without professional help just by you and by me anonymously and not by inpatient therapy then everyone would know it's enough then I have to pay my debts as a student i can not reschedule I get Bafög and work I'm currently looking like a madman so it works with the installments I'm at the end and just want a normal life without gambling without Debt without depression 7000 € depress me extremely the gambling even more it was just stupid and you really should not gamble whether you have money or not play is extremely dangerous and most 99% have debts even if they do not want to admit it I do not know what to do for now I have blocked me everywhere and now play i'm not playing anymore it's enough for me no matter what I would win it all goes back in twice a vicious circle it does not stop I'm myself to blame because I got involved in the game with the devil he always wins otherwise no Online Casinos or gambling houses would grow on every corner they have to win otherwise they would all be broke after 2 hours it's fraud 100% because if it were coincidence then they would have a chance of 50/50 to stay on the market but because it is manipulated is they have a chance of 90/10 and that's why they stay and earn millions per week easy I don't care now I'm myself to blame please stop gambling to all believe me I rather stop now before I have so much debt that I'm out of the window don't gamble at all and have fun in life I have to pay off this 7k now and then have my peace of mind have a nice evening and stay free from gambling this goes explicitly to young people believe me let it be ciao
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DavidNo94 wrote on 04/07/2020 at 01:57: Hello, I am extremely confused as I somehow just woke up now
I am 26 years old live with my girlfriend and have been addicted to online casino gambling for 1 year I don't want to do this anymore every day I gamble money that I don't even own I pay off debts and then gamble again I really never won anything big 2 times 1000€ paid out but certainly already 10.000€ deposited I feel cheated I feel empty I have 7000€ debts and have to pay them off somehow and the credit card has hefty interest. I really just want to stop I will probably never get my money back I know that but every time with each Deposit I think to myself now comes the Jackpot and nothing comes I lie to my girlfriend have not told her and can not that would mean the end I really want to do it alone without professional help just by you and by me anonymously and not by inpatient therapy then everyone would know it is already enough then I have to pay my debts as a student i can not reschedule I get Bafög and work I'm currently looking like a madman so it works with the installments I'm at the end and just want a normal life without gambling without Debt without depression 7000 € depress me extremely the gambling even more it was just stupid and you really should not gamble whether you have money or not play is extremely dangerous and most 99% have debts even if they do not want to admit it I do not know what to do for now I have blocked me everywhere and now play i'm not playing anymore it's enough for me no matter what I would win it all goes back in twice a vicious circle it does not stop I'm myself to blame because I got involved in the game with the devil he always wins otherwise no Online Casinos or gambling houses would grow on every corner they have to win otherwise they would all be broke after 2 hours it's fraud 100% because if it were coincidence then they would have a chance of 50/50 to stay on the market but because it is manipulated is they have a 90/10 chance and that's why they stay and make millions a week easy I don't care now I'm myself to blame please stop gambling everyone believe me I'd rather stop now before I have so much debt that I'm out of the window don't gamble at all and have fun in life I have to pay off this 7k now and then have my peace of mind have a nice evening and stay free from gambling this goes explicitly to young people believe me let it be ciao
i guess you write how you think at the moment: traffic circle, no exit, guilt shame & all over again. sounds like hell, it probably is. you'll make it anyway. Winston Churchill once put it in a nutshell
If You're Going Through Hell - Keep Going.
Churchill, by the way, was himself a candidate for depression, which I mention at this point because in many cases addiction is accompanied by depression, sometimes it's even the cause. and the whole headache may not automatically go away, even if you manage to keep your hands off gambling. either way, it's probably a lot to deal with and may be difficult to master alone. (and can also be too much for two people - e.g. in a couple relationship). so why not get help? there are professionals for that
and seeking professional help is self-care, not a sign of weakness - can't be repeated often enough. it doesn't have to be inpatient & there is a duty of confidentiality on the part of the therapists - so no one will find out about it if you don't want them to. however, your chances simply increase enormously with professional support. in addition, the partner / the environment is also relieved (automatically, regardless of whether they are in on it or not).
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4th Jul. 2020, at 11:05 am CEST#9
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Cheeseburger wrote on 04.07.2020 at 10:50 am: I wonder rather how you get with only Bafög income a credit card with 7000 euro .
if you ask yourself something like that, i wonder how you could run a successful business
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4th Jul. 2020, at 11:10 am CEST#10
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Cheeseburger wrote on 04.07.2020 at 10:50 am: I wonder rather how you get with only Bafög income a credit card with 7000 euro .
There are enough credit cards that are available for students.
Once you have one, it is easy to increase the limit.
With the Barclaycard e.g. you just "withdraw" the whole balance and then a few weeks late deposited again, you do that a few months you promptly get the automatic increase of your limit
Only 1 example.
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4th Jul. 2020, at 11:13 am CEST#11
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The credit card is okay, if you always pay at the 1st everything then the limit increases over time, most card providers (especially those from abroad) do not care about income or Schufa
Anyway, I advise the young man times that he should discuss the matter with his girlfriend and his family. Everyone makes mistakes and with the amount the child has not yet fallen into the well. If he finishes his studies and gets a job in his field, he will have paid for it in a few months. In some form of rescheduling, because on the card he pays about 50 euros interest every month without the Debt will be less
And away from this forum, this is a gambler forum for gamblers who congratulate each other and give tips. There are enough forums that deal with Gambling addiction, there he also gets better help than here.
Anyway, I wish you all the best for the future and stay away from gambling!
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I am 26 years old live with my girlfriend and have been addicted to online casino gambling for 1 year I do not want it anymore every day I gamble money that I do not even own pay off debts and then gamble again I have really never won anything big 2 times 1000€ paid out but certainly already deposited 10,000€ I feel cheated I feel empty have 7000€ Debt and must somehow pay off and the credit card has hefty interest. I really just want to stop I will probably never get my money back I know that but every time with each Deposit I think to myself now comes the Jackpot and nothing comes I lie to my girlfriend have not told her and can not that would mean the end I really want to do it alone without professional help just by you and by me anonymously and not by inpatient therapy then everyone would know it is already enough then I have to pay my debts as a I can not reschedule as a student I get Bafög and work I'm currently looking like a madman so it works with the installments I'm at the end and just want a normal life without gambling without debt without depression 7000 € depress me extremely the gambling even more it was just stupid and you really should not gamble whether you have money or not play is extremely dangerous and most 99% have debts even if they do not want to admit it I do not know what I should do for now i have blocked me everywhere and play now also no more it is enough for me no matter what I would win it goes all double again purely a vicious circle it does not stop I am myself to blame because I have let myself in on the game with the devil he always wins otherwise no Online Casinos or gambling houses would grow on every corner they must win otherwise they would all be broke after 2 hours it is fraud 100% because if it were coincidence then they would have a chance of 50/50 to stay in the market but because it is manipulated they have a chance of 90/10 and that's why they stay and earn millions per week easily I don't care now I'm myself to blame please stop gambling to all believe me I rather stop now before I have so much debt that I'm out of the window don't gamble at all and have fun in life I have to pay off this 7k now and then have my peace of mind have a nice evening and stay free from gambling this goes explicitly to young people believe me let it be ciao
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The desire to play for money, if it is once there, will not go, if one writes here a contribution, by stating that one does not want it now any more. Keeping it a secret from your life partner makes things much more complicated. Even if after the revelation it bangs quite loudly, then it is worth that one has talked about it. Incidentally, this is also how you recognize true love... (isn't that nice)
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You just have to stay strong and stop gambling. The money is gone, the chance to get it back is zero. Slots are there to reward a few players and rip off the masses in return
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i guess you write how you think at the moment: traffic circle, no exit, guilt shame & all over again. sounds like hell, it probably is. you'll make it anyway. Winston Churchill once put it in a nutshell
If You're Going Through Hell - Keep Going.
Churchill, by the way, was himself a candidate for depression, which I mention at this point because in many cases addiction is accompanied by depression, sometimes it's even the cause. and the whole headache may not automatically go away, even if you manage to keep your hands off gambling. either way, it's probably a lot to deal with and may be difficult to master alone. (and can also be too much for two people - e.g. in a couple relationship). so why not get help? there are professionals for that
and seeking professional help is self-care, not a sign of weakness - can't be repeated often enough. it doesn't have to be inpatient & there is a duty of confidentiality on the part of the therapists - so no one will find out about it if you don't want them to. however, your chances simply increase enormously with professional support. in addition, the partner / the environment is also relieved (automatically, regardless of whether they are in on it or not).
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if you ask yourself something like that, i wonder how you could run a successful business
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There are enough credit cards that are available for students.
Once you have one, it is easy to increase the limit.
With the Barclaycard e.g. you just "withdraw" the whole balance and then a few weeks late deposited again, you do that a few months you promptly get the automatic increase of your limit
Only 1 example.
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Anyway, I advise the young man times that he should discuss the matter with his girlfriend and his family. Everyone makes mistakes and with the amount the child has not yet fallen into the well. If he finishes his studies and gets a job in his field, he will have paid for it in a few months. In some form of rescheduling, because on the card he pays about 50 euros interest every month without the Debt will be less
And away from this forum, this is a gambler forum for gamblers who congratulate each other and give tips. There are enough forums that deal with Gambling addiction, there he also gets better help than here.
Anyway, I wish you all the best for the future and stay away from gambling!
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