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Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
31st Jan. 2019, at 02:10 pm CET#11
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This is a different case. There are countless addictions and when someone loses control they need help
As someone already wrote, if people would help each other more...
In the real world, those who have a lot are the most stingy, because they defend their financial wealth at all costs
defend. Even the state FRG acts so and saves on those who do not have much anyway. I can think of Hartz4 sanctions
come to mind. The question is why do you save on the little people?
In Osnabrück now tax money was wasted
HartplasteMatten on the roadway so that the cars drive slower. Piece a 70,000€
They have now been removed again because it made too much noise when cars drove over it
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Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
31st Jan. 2019, at 02:16 pm CET#12
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Of course, there will always be cases where funds are senselessly wasted.
Personally, however, that's just my opinion, I think that once you have to fall on the fr.... so that nothing more goes
This is the experience of almost all addicts, regardless of the addiction.
If someone always helps, it has no aha effect.
Many addicts here will also confirm this!
But everyone should decide for themselves!
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Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
31st Jan. 2019, at 03:17 pm CET#13
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umpalumpa wrote on 01/31/2019 00:55: Hi guys,
i have once again gambled away everything and this has been going on for years and even so far that I can not even pay my bills and am therefore highly indebted.
There are days when I do not even have something to eat which is really a very bad feeling.
i have decided to arrange a self-exclusion everywhere.
I simply have no more strength and do not know what to do.
There is no help have already tried everything and will probably have to try to create it myself.
Player protection there is none at all because otherwise it would not be possible to lose all his money.
I wish the casinos everything imaginable bad that there is.
Oh man I hope I somehow manage to get away from the search and somehow survive.
Please be careful so you don't have to go through the same thing....
only when you starve, lose your home, your job, your family, your money, your health Insurance, you are finished. Change yourself, seek prof. help Caritas offers something like that. Believe me I gambled away 200000+ and I was almost down. This is not a life in the long run, it makes you sick. Please seek urgent help.
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Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
31st Jan. 2019, at 07:48 pm CET#14
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Ruebezahl wrote on 01/31/2019 2:10 pm: This is a different case. There are countless addictions and when someone loses control they need help
As someone already wrote, if people would help each other more...
In the real world it is the case that those who have a lot are the most stingy, because they defend their financial wealth at all costs
defend. Even the state FRG acts so and saves on those who do not have much anyway. I can think of Hartz4 sanctions
come to mind. The question is why do you save on the little people?
In Osnabrück now tax money was wasted
HartplasteMatten on the roadway so that the cars drive slower. Piece a 70,000€
They have now been removed again because it made too much noise when cars drove over it.
Now they are not always ultra stingy, there are also many who ignore donations or even their ranking on lists and prefer to invest money for progress.
That there are sanctions at the subsistence level is a thing in itself, but that has little to do with gambling addiction.
I think 9c-3f has already described it correctly. How many had someone once with him who said "Stop it" or "Pay off" one is as an addict there only annoyed and continues to play. Many can always shift the blame, but a little responsibility for their own actions would be3 not bad. If you want help, you can find it quickly and easily, but if you don't want it..., should your fellow human beings take you away from it by force? And in the end still be nicely accused?
I have often experienced that people who wanted to help were accused at the end. Often feeigesprochen, but really ridiculous cases there.
Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
1st Feb. 2019, at 02:42 am CET#15
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I can only give you the Tip to try Chargeback and get your lost money back
Provided that the casino in which you have played does not have a German license. For this you also need a lawyer who is familiar with the whole topic
To do this, however, you should really mean it! So let yourself be blocked from all casinos beforehand and also look for a therapist!
Just make yourself aware through your experience that in the long run you ALWAYS lose
The only ones who win are the gambling mafia.
Just the hope of maybe getting your money back and maybe being the winner in the end (or at least not a loser anymore) may keep you from continuing to gamble.
I am currently trying the same thing and have an appointment next week for a free initial consultation with Lenné Law Firm (www.anwalt-leverkusen.de). Among other things, this firm specializes in the topic of "illegal gambling".
It's best for everyone to try this!
And everyone who now again claims that this does not belong here, should shut the f**k up!!! Casinos do the same and often enough refuse to pay out wins.... you can read here every day!!!
The poor casinos and financial service providers know EXACTLY that you violate the law, but shit on it for profit!
The whole casino operators should die of cancer, as well as the banks and financial services that support this
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Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
1st Feb. 2019, at 03:18 pm CET#16
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thank you guys for your kind words and for the criticism I have locked myself almost everywhere and every day now new casinos are added because I just log in where I have not yet played and lock myself there.
I have already written to Trustly, Sofort banking and Giropay that they should send me an overview of all the transactions I have ever made so that I can send them a payment request with the exact amount etc. to the payment service providers.
I will use the sample letter from Mr. Lenne for the payment request and hope that something happens there. I would not even have the money to pay Mr. Lenne his fee which I would need to bring a lawsuit to run. Loco187 where did you get the money to pay the lawyer?
Toro are really a fine guy and I appreciate this offer very much only unfortunately I live in Gelsenkirchen but thank you thank you and again thank you.
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8th Feb. 2019, at 03:03 pm CET#17
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There is a nice program Betblocker is free locks all zockerseiten you can set from24 h to 5years Have tried everything possible to gamble sites are blocked.When time is over you can gamble again.I would be interested if Daniel knows the program and what he says about it.
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Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
9th Feb. 2019, at 11:59 am CET#18
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Just distract yourself for a while a two months then it goes again 😎
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Loss of control every month again gambled away everything
10th Feb. 2019, at 02:32 am CET#19
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here too. the day is still young, but already the credit balance of 561€ has been gambled away to 0€. exactly 63€ remains on the account until the end of the month
deposit listing of the casinos has unfortunately never helped me. (what are 26 deposits within an excess if you could get the last 500 deposits anyway...)
the insight into the extent to which gambling determines my life and will probably always determine it at least in part (regardless of whether one day I'm free to gamble or not) is relatively tough stuff.
for the time being, it will come down to harm reduction for the time being, in that the Gambling addiction will only be lived out in the real casino.
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29th Apr. 2019, at 11:27 pm CEST#20
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Grashopper wrote on 01/31/2019 02:05: Therapy??? Or is there something like the anonymous gamblers? ^^
How you definitely get rid of first is get rid of your gadgets. Get them an old cell phone, not a smartphone. Tablet, laptop, computer....give it to a friend for a month or two. Talk to someone and ask them to help you and "control" you so to speak. If you put yourself under the obligation to be accountable to others, to disappoint them, to disappoint yourself, to break promises, you have another, not necessarily stopping, but still existing pressure point not to gamble. Avoid opportunities to gamble secretly. Withdrawing money is only of limited help because there are paysafe cards and if the store is not far, the next Deposit will not be either. If you still have the feeling you would not make it give your money to a friend or your parents again with the request for help and allocation of the money. The whole thing is not a permanent state and serves only times the first cold turkey. The Tip to look for a new hobby is absolutely worth its weight in gold. Don't get too bored and keep yourself busy. Get new email addresses so that you are not even confronted with the topic. Have your friends change the passwords of the old addresses without them telling you the password so that you don't get tempted. The first attempt to seek help here is not wrong but seek it in real life because in that you also sit at home and gamble everything away and have your worries. A good thing is also to block your accounts....ALL accounts...Without exception and not only those you can "represent" and others again not because you have played there particularly gladly and there perhaps sometime again would like to play
Don't be ashamed of therapies or medical help or talking to friends/family. What do you think how many people there are with the problem? and to openly seek help is not ashamed, but is usually rewarded by the field with recognition and respect. And Gambling addiction is one of the most insidious addictions because it tickles your dreams and hopes and gives you nothing in return. A heroin junkie gets more out of his addiction than you do, because at least he has his high, even if both bring you to the same gutter.
You will find that gambling addiction is like any other addiction. Going cold turkey is hard, but don't play for a month or two. You will ask yourself how you could ever feel the way you do right now and be so addicted to it. The most important thing of all is just....Don't ever start again
ANYTHING that is addictive can be enjoyed up to a certain point without consequences...no matter if it is drugs, gambling, sex addiction....whatever. But at a certain point, you have then f**ked up this "drug". From that point on you will not be able to do it in a controlled way anymore. Do coke once a year and do it for two weeks at a time. Drink alcohol once a month or a month at a time. Smoke a cigarette while partying and smoke for two weeks. Play once a round in the casino.....You realize what I'm getting at a dry alcoholic can sometime drink a beer without becoming an alcoholic again or someone who has stopped smoking smoke a cigarette. If you have a "drug" and there I count gambling times to but once screwed up, you will always be a dry gambler or whatever and you are 80% faster back in it than the first time. I wish you in any case all the best and much success
Exactly your opinion! It is also important that you go inside yourself and honestly ask yourself if you are not fooling yourself. Block online banking but then just buy paysafecarts with a clear conscience - that would be such an example
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As someone already wrote, if people would help each other more...
In the real world, those who have a lot are the most stingy, because they defend their financial wealth at all costs
defend. Even the state FRG acts so and saves on those who do not have much anyway. I can think of Hartz4 sanctions
come to mind. The question is why do you save on the little people?
In Osnabrück now tax money was wasted
HartplasteMatten on the roadway so that the cars drive slower. Piece a 70,000€
They have now been removed again because it made too much noise when cars drove over it
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Personally, however, that's just my opinion, I think that once you have to fall on the fr.... so that nothing more goes
This is the experience of almost all addicts, regardless of the addiction.
If someone always helps, it has no aha effect.
Many addicts here will also confirm this!
But everyone should decide for themselves!
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only when you starve, lose your home, your job, your family, your money, your health Insurance, you are finished. Change yourself, seek prof. help Caritas offers something like that. Believe me I gambled away 200000+ and I was almost down. This is not a life in the long run, it makes you sick. Please seek urgent help.
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Now they are not always ultra stingy, there are also many who ignore donations or even their ranking on lists and prefer to invest money for progress.
That there are sanctions at the subsistence level is a thing in itself, but that has little to do with gambling addiction.
I think 9c-3f has already described it correctly. How many had someone once with him who said "Stop it" or "Pay off" one is as an addict there only annoyed and continues to play. Many can always shift the blame, but a little responsibility for their own actions would be3 not bad. If you want help, you can find it quickly and easily, but if you don't want it..., should your fellow human beings take you away from it by force? And in the end still be nicely accused?
I have often experienced that people who wanted to help were accused at the end. Often feeigesprochen, but really ridiculous cases there.
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Provided that the casino in which you have played does not have a German license. For this you also need a lawyer who is familiar with the whole topic
To do this, however, you should really mean it! So let yourself be blocked from all casinos beforehand and also look for a therapist!
Just make yourself aware through your experience that in the long run you ALWAYS lose
The only ones who win are the gambling mafia.
Just the hope of maybe getting your money back and maybe being the winner in the end (or at least not a loser anymore) may keep you from continuing to gamble.
I am currently trying the same thing and have an appointment next week for a free initial consultation with Lenné Law Firm (www.anwalt-leverkusen.de). Among other things, this firm specializes in the topic of "illegal gambling".
It's best for everyone to try this!
And everyone who now again claims that this does not belong here, should shut the f**k up!!! Casinos do the same and often enough refuse to pay out wins.... you can read here every day!!!
The poor casinos and financial service providers know EXACTLY that you violate the law, but shit on it for profit!
The whole casino operators should die of cancer, as well as the banks and financial services that support this
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I have locked myself almost everywhere and every day now new casinos are added because I just log in where I have not yet played and lock myself there.
I have already written to Trustly, Sofort banking and Giropay that they should send me an overview of all the transactions I have ever made
so that I can send them a payment request with the exact amount etc. to the payment service providers.
I will use the sample letter from Mr. Lenne for the payment request and hope that something happens there.
I would not even have the money to pay Mr. Lenne his fee which I would need to bring a lawsuit to run.
Loco187 where did you get the money to pay the lawyer?
Toro are really a fine guy and I appreciate this offer very much only unfortunately I live in Gelsenkirchen but thank you thank you and again thank you.
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deposit listing of the casinos has unfortunately never helped me. (what are 26 deposits within an excess if you could get the last 500 deposits anyway...)
the insight into the extent to which gambling determines my life and will probably always determine it at least in part (regardless of whether one day I'm free to gamble or not) is relatively tough stuff.
for the time being, it will come down to harm reduction for the time being, in that the Gambling addiction will only be lived out in the real casino.
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Exactly your opinion! It is also important that you go inside yourself and honestly ask yourself if you are not fooling yourself. Block online banking but then just buy paysafecarts with a clear conscience - that would be such an example
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