That's cool too. I would probably say okay out of misplaced politeness. And then make excuses every time in the hope that the other person checks.
What do you say then?
"Thanks, but it's not necessary."
"you do that once and never again..."
"your mother is coming over!"
Or even more diplomatic?
I used to say "I'd love to" or "Go ahead and do that" and then throw myself on the floor behind the window when the doorbell rang. Later, I said very rudely to a colleague who otherwise didn't keep her distance "I don't like it when people invite themselves over". She was shocked at first and then insulted for a long time afterwards. The next time I put it more gently: "Nothing against you, but I don't like unannounced visitors". But you can also be polite and ring the doorbell.
I used to say "I'd love to" or "Go ahead" and then throw myself on the floor behind the window when the doorbell rang. Later, I said very rudely to a colleague who otherwise had no distancing behavior "I don't like it when you invite yourself". She was shocked at first and then insulted for a long time afterwards. The next time I put it more gently: "Nothing against you, but I don't like unannounced visitors". But you can also be polite and ring the doorbell.
The electrified thing sounds good. Then you don't have to say anything unpleasant.... 😂
What do you think of the new rules in the gaming arcades?
29th Jan. 2024, at 08:16 pm CET#63
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I like to shout at people I know, it's fun, I'm often loud, my buddies then tell me to shut up 🙄 who's funny if they put it nicely now😂
It just depends on when you can be direct and when you can't, but colleagues at work are often better off using the system described above unless you're the boss 😜
What do you think of the new rules in the gaming arcades?
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I used to say "I'd love to" or "Go ahead and do that" and then throw myself on the floor behind the window when the doorbell rang. Later, I said very rudely to a colleague who otherwise didn't keep her distance "I don't like it when people invite themselves over". She was shocked at first and then insulted for a long time afterwards. The next time I put it more gently: "Nothing against you, but I don't like unannounced visitors". But you can also be polite and ring the doorbell.
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What do you think of the new rules in the gaming arcades?
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The electrified thing sounds good. Then you don't have to say anything unpleasant.... 😂
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What do you think of the new rules in the gaming arcades?
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It just depends on when you can be direct and when you can't, but colleagues at work are often better off using the system described above unless you're the boss 😜
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