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Living with gambling addiction: In the end :( (Page 3)

Topic created on 25th Oct. 2019 | Page: 3 of 4 | Answers: 37 | Views: 10,030
Anonym

In the end :(

27th Oct. 2019, at 01:33 am CEST#21
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tby wrote on 10/27/2019 00:44 AM
I think you need to work a lot on yourself in particular. Please write me in the communicator what you were thinking when you asked me a shitty/cheeky/stupid question when I was feeling really shitty two weeks ago. Since you didn't write back, I'd be really interested in the thought process behind it.

This has been taken care of.

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Cheeseburger
Experienced

In the end :(

27th Oct. 2019, at 03:57 am CET#22
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What has settled?
That here again times someone with problems is drawn into ridicule?
To the thread creator: write me Mal pn then we make Mal what from I help you with your problems I was in the same situation as you before and yes life is unfair, shitty and exhausting. But no reason to clear away.

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upola
Legend

In the end :(

27th Oct. 2019, at 07:43 am CET#23
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you call 300 euros in Debt problems?
Then ask others, they will tell you what the real problems are.

This is a fake here.

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Slot_Star
Top Member

In the end :(

27th Oct. 2019, at 01:08 pm CET#24
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Cheeseburger wrote on 27/10/2019 at 03:57: What has settled?
That here again times someone with problems is drawn into ridicule ?
To the thread creator: write me Mal pn then we make Mal what from I help you with your problems I was in the same situation as you before and yes life is unfair, shitty and exhausting. But no reason to clear away.

Thank you I will do have also written yesterday with @tby in detail

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Slot_Star
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In the end :(

27th Oct. 2019, at 01:08 pm CET#25
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upola wrote on 27/10/2019 at 07:43: 300 euros of Debt you call problems?
Then ask others,they will tell you what are really problems.

This is a fake here.

You still don't get it do you?

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v****2

In the end :(

27th Oct. 2019, at 06:09 pm CET#26
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upola wrote on 27/10/2019 at 07:43: 300 euros of Debt you call problems?
Then ask others,they will tell you what are really problems.

This is a fake here.

this is not about the sxxxiß 300€...the boy has problems
to get along with his life...some people really do not understand anything.
and who makes fun of such a thing can one actually
only feel sorry

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upola
Legend

In the end :(

27th Oct. 2019, at 06:49 pm CET#27
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vomvom12 wrote at 18:09 on 27/10/2019
here it is not about the sxxxiß 300€...the boy has problems
to get along with his life...some people really do not understand anything.
and who makes fun of something like that you can only feel sorry for
only feel sorry

And the help he then seeks in a gambling forum at Hobbypsycholgen?

Then continue to provide first aid.

A Tip I still have...he should seek professional help.

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Kleinkariert
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In the end :(

28th Oct. 2019, at 03:28 am CET#28
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You don't have to have gambled away everything to have a problem. It should be clear to everyone that this is not only about Gambling addiction, but about other mental problems. Living with your parents at the age of 29 and drawing ALG 2 is already a modest situation.

Important for you is: Move out and look for work

This should help you the most. At work, through socialization with colleagues, you will begin to enjoy work or feel it is not quite as bad. No matter what level of education you have, you will find something if you want to. The apartment does not have to be in Cologne.

But it is not easy, so you need someone to support you. Here, a therapist is very helpful, who motivates you and supports you in such projects. The therapist has to fit you, so it sometimes takes time to find the right one. Don't let yourself go like that, I know it's hard to get out of it. But if you step on the gas now you will feel much better in 1 to 2 years. Also the "I don't care" thoughts will become less, but they usually don't go away for the rest of your life. It usually comes from a lot of disappointment in life.


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wettibernd
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In the end :(

28th Oct. 2019, at 08:01 am CET#29
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Then I also want to put my two cents in.

Your psychological situation can't be due to Debt, because 300€ are gone in 5 minutes if it goes badly. So it is really related to your housing situation and unemployment. Whether Gambling addiction is present we leave aside, in any case you feel the life not just as particularly positive. Then there is only one possibility, namely that you change something about it. So look for a job and then get your own place, at the beginning it can also be a room in a shared apartment, at least stand on your own two feet, that's damn important for your self-confidence. If you have achieved this and are still depressed, then look for a psycho uncle. But until then you are challenged yourself, so go out and just do it.

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Dagmarlena
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In the end :(

28th Oct. 2019, at 10:44 am CET#30
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upola wrote on 10/27/2019 6:49 pm
And the help he then seeks in a gambler forum with hobby psychologists?

Keep on giving first aid then.

A Tip I still have...he should seek professional help.

Where if not here, where everything revolves around the topic of the problem - is the probability higher that you meet like-minded people?

Regardless of the fact that Gamblejoe the problem of Gambling addiction here just as Thematisiert as everything else that concerns gambling with direct links to professional help.

To take the first step here and look for help will probably have been the best possible choice!
Consider times - professional assistance is fast found with few clicks in the net! That is also 100pro clear - but from own strength he did not manage it so far to become active, that is yes the vicious circle at depressions! This can not be explained with normal common sense and makes it so hard, if you do not suffer from it - to find understanding for it. Since it is contrary to all logic!
Your comment on the whole thing is, from the point of view of a logically reasoning thinking, completely understandable!
Reads that, judges factually the situation and thinks you probably more or less something like:
"All right boy, dau have probably not yet heard the blow....go and let you professionally Helfen otherwise is not to help you" (cheekily formulated😅)
The "hobbypsychologische first aid" is not practiced here. But the whole thing will help nevertheless!
He expresses himself anonymously, the hurdle of pain of a direct confrontation is omitted and since he opened the thread, he deals with it again and again and no longer exclusively with himself, but in interaction with others. Whether encouragement, incomprehension o. Hates - by confronting the individual views, one probably processes more effectively in the direction of positive self-healing. The next step is then less difficult. Finally set a goal and take this as a reason to seek professional social therapeutic help, which supports him psychotherapeutically thereby .

So we are hobby psychologists here no total failure - because help to self-help 😅 And that yes probably everyone has somehow one at the run I need yes probably no one only still tell! But only those who are of the firm opinion, it is not so with those - Are in reality the real lunatics who is no longer to help ...😂🤷♀️



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