Slot_Star wrote on 10/26/2019 at 1:00 pm
Thank you what you wrote has taken me.
I have to say that in the 8 years I have also paid off debts in the amount of 1500 EUR and I have to give @Dagmarlena right, I must now somehow have a certain number of debts and must be considered a gambling addict?
If you knew my life is then you would change your mind @saschamk.
Due to Gambling addiction my life has changed, depression, no self-confidence anymore, lost social contacts etc.
For you 300 € may not be much for me.
But that's just my opinion.
I'm just kidding. Do not misunderstand I'm not happy about it when others are doing badly as you seem to be at the moment. I just wondered when reading if this is your serious with the debt... I mean even if you pay every day only one euro you do not even need a year to pay everything. If it really burdens you so much, one Euro a day is absolutely doable... Sounds stupid but even 4 Deposit bottles would do it and I don't mean you should demand the last bit from your psyche and your self-confidence and rummage for bottles from the trash can at the train stations! Just go for a walk and keep your eyes open. Sooo as you probably notice I have nothing clever to say ... So I do not do that either 😜 get well soon
Dagmarlena wrote on 10/26/2019 12:59 PM
What suits me or not has no value at all. But it is obvious that you have not understood Gambling addiction as such by definition. You confuse a negative consequence of the disease - as again named by you here -> that of the amount of Debt - with the disease itself!
And thus your complete principle is wrong!
Because the financial aspect is only one of the results of this addiction! That what from a certain debt height one, so to speak for the public, the addiction illness no more conceals lets!
At the latest when the house of cards collapses everything is obviously Aufgeflogen.
The financial drama is the result, which for affected and outsiders most concisely the gambling addiction emerges and thereby the connection falsely to the addiction goes along with the debts
If this were so, then the person would not be addicted to gambling and would not have a compulsive clinical picture until he has reached a certain sum that becomes a problem and threatens the cost of living. Which is absolute nonsense!
Most drunks and or junkies reveal their problem for all ersichtlicht. Through one of the results of their addiction - which would be, among other things, the physical decline
If your argument would be true, a drug addict would not be addicted as long as he is not visibly physically marked and socially ruined
But the fact is:
there are a lot of alcohol and opiate addicts, who suffer from this disease for decades, but are able to hide it from the outside world.
They are respected, renowned and although they act negligently, because these persons are not master of their senses. They still actively perform responsible tasks, for example, in their profession. For example, doctors such as surgeons who handle the life of a person but would never be allowed to do so if the circumstance of their addiction disease would be known!
Therefore your statement is small-minded garbage!
I do not understand... can you not even please FULLY explain this to me? 🎶🎶🎶 But if it goes a little more compact... Is that even possible to explain something in detail and compactly at the same time? Preferably with pictures. Self painted ifs geht.. That would be great ... It seems that you have nothing else in mind when you write such long texts that seem to have lost the ¿? Seriousness ¿? The matter should make me understand 🐣
Slot_Star wrote on 10/26/2019 at 1:00 pm
Thank you what you wrote has taken me.
I have to say that in the 8 years I have also paid off debts in the amount of 1500 EUR and I have to give @Dagmarlena right, I must now somehow have a certain number of debts and must be considered a gambling addict?
If you knew my life is then you would change your mind @saschamk.
Due to Gambling addiction my life has changed, depression, no self-confidence anymore, lost social contacts etc.
For you 300 € may not be much for me.
But that's just my opinion.
hej, what when how much Debt accumulated, paid off etc. you do not need to quantify here to justify your problem. Whether the actual extent is clear to you in the full extent, I do strongly doubt. But it is unimportant for the time being, because here it is about your call for help itself!
I must trozdem still get rid of one before I come to the actual, was I would like to say to you:
1. Not everyone has the same starting possibilities! => the accumulation of money debts,
in the amount of several "tens of thousands of euros +" make possible at all!!!
2. It is SHIT-EGAL whether one is with 100,000€ in the miesen or with 3,000€
- What one does not have one does not have!
What appears to the one as small stuff, compared to the amount of the own indebtedness which does not let him sleep at night before existential worries - is measured completely alone from his perspective - * * *
only because this person would have 3000Euro still without further together - this him however not in the beginning would be enough around its own disaster to turn away - justifies no devaluation of the existence worries of the other!
Probably the situation of the one, which the 3000Euro the water up to the neck leave, is more dramaticallyand real existentially threatening than its own, at this time!
Where no assets in any kind are present, which one can make in height of 3000€ to money, there everything is exhausted which only somehow goes! Then it is often about serious imminent problems, like threatening homelessness u.o. even more fundamental like food! ONLY ASSHOLES DO PROBLEMS OF OTHERS AS SMALL STUFF! They are far from any reality! point and end! * * *
Dear Slot_Star I do not know it exactly but suspect that there are several causes than only the gambling addiction, as a reason for your NOW situation! But that does not make it less real, you have in any case not yet lost. because you mirror yourself what one can clearly read out from your self-assessment! That makes it for your perceived suffering first not better, if one is clear but does not find out of it - but the most important condition for a recovery!
Fact is you do not manage it from alone - therefore you look for help! Don't necessarily start with the gambling addiction if you don't find something right away! Go to a specialist and get yourself admitted to a good inpatient clinic, where you can work out an approach to healing in peace and quiet. Whether you're hanging around at home or somewhere else on a recreational tour....ne
saschamk wrote on 10/26/2019 at 1:58 pm
I don't understand... can't you explain this to me in FULL please? 🎶🎶🎶 But if it goes a bit more compact.... Is that even possible to explain something in detail and compactly at the same time? Preferably with pictures. Self painted ifs geht.. That would be great ... It seems that you have nothing else in mind when you write such long texts that seem to have lost the ¿? Seriousness ¿? The matter should make me understand 🐣
i'm sorry but I don't have enough crayons to make you understand anything and I've already lost enough of my valuable time. With people who are as dumb as 3m dirt road, the basis for any further debate is unnecessary for me
so long..
Dagmarlena wrote on 10/26/2019 at 16:01
i'm sorry but I don't have enough crayons to make you understand anything and have already lost enough of my valuable life time. With people who are as dumb as 3m dirt road, the basis for any further debate is unnecessary for me
so long..
I always stay away from people who don't have enough crayons at home. They should first get their lives in order
Because of this, the basis for any further knowledge of your monologue is also unnecessary for me
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Slot_Star wrote on 25.10.2019 at 23:08: I just do not know more further in my life am unemployed, for more than 8 years playing every single euro goes only for gambling drauf.
I don't even think about groceries when I go shopping. I tried to do a therapy which I broke off after a few days (don't ask me why).
I would like to accept help but it is extremely difficult for me to keep appointments. In the meantime I don't give a shit about anything.
More often suicidal thoughts (not serious) but they are there. Also I have problems to open up to others in everything I do I am always nervous (at appointments etc etc).
Also suffering from severe depression for a few years now don't know what to do .
Can only advise you, look for a job!
Unemployed and gambling?
From the money of those who go to work every day?
Then crying around here because of 300 € ...
When I read something like that I could only
You I would completely cut off all funds ...then zockst also no longer ...
29 years and live with parents ...what went wrong with you ?
Peace out
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26th Oct. 2019, at 10:52 pm CEST#17
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Sweep88 wrote on 10/26/2019 at 10:23 pm
Can only advise you, get a job !
Unemployed and gambling ?
From the money of those who go to work every day ?
Then crying around here because of 300 € ...
When I read something like that I could only
You I would completely cut off all funds ...then zockst also no longer ...
29 years and live with parents ...what went wrong with you ?
Peace out
and with you everything went smoothly, yes? soso. well then everything is in order...
@ Slot_Star: The suggestion with the therapy is not a bad one. Depression is not a small thing & without professional help it will probably not get better so easily. Sometimes it needs supportive medication as well. It would be good if someone could help you find a therapist (finding a good therapist is like winning the lottery). Maybe you can confide in someone who can help you with the first steps. It would be a shame to hit the sack right now.
So I find it a miracle that Slot Star has only 300 euros in Debt, because he always manages to achieve the necessary score 2500 XP at Videoslots and that with Harz 4. I had where I won 2 weeks ago there a Tuesday battle 100 euros of it again gambled away and thus achieved only 540 XP of the required 2500 XP. And you have to play at Videoslots these 2500 XP every 2 weeks each time again. The weekend Tournament which is running right now, you can also only participate if you have reached these 2500 XP and he is there. I find that rather amazing that he always manages to meet these high requirements at Videoslots with such a small salary and therefore it is also only 300 euros debt.
Falko wrote on 26.10.2019 at 23:22: So I think it's a miracle that Slot Star has only 300 euros in Debt, because he always manages to achieve the necessary score 2500 XP at Videoslots and that with Harz 4. I had where I won 2 weeks ago there a Tuesday battle 100 euros of it gambled away again and thus achieved only 540 XP of the required 2500 XP. And you have to play at Videoslots these 2500 XP every 2 weeks each time again. The weekend Tournament which is running right now, you can also only participate if you have reached these 2500 XP and he is there. I find that rather amazing that he always manages to meet these high requirements at Videoslots with such a small salary and therefore it is also only 300 euros debt.
Videoslots.com is also my regular casino
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Slot_Star wrote on 10/25/2019 at 23:08
I would love to accept help but I find it so extremely hard to keep appointments etc. In the meantime I don't really give a shit about anything.
More often suicidal thoughts (not serious) but they are there. Also I have problems to open up to others in everything I do I am always nervous (at appointments etc etc).
Also suffering from severe depression for a few years now don't know what to do .
Here I see myself somewhat in it. I think it could help you personally especially if you find a job. Not necessarily because of the work itself, but because of the social environment at work. But of course I don't know what kind of situation you're in, so I can't judge that.
I think that you have to work a lot on yourself in particular. Please write me in the Communicator what you were thinking when you asked me a shitty/cheeky/stupid question when I was feeling really shitty two weeks ago. Since you didn't write back, I'd be really interested in the thought process behind it.
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I'm just kidding. Do not misunderstand I'm not happy about it when others are doing badly as you seem to be at the moment. I just wondered when reading if this is your serious with the debt... I mean even if you pay every day only one euro you do not even need a year to pay everything. If it really burdens you so much, one Euro a day is absolutely doable... Sounds stupid but even 4 Deposit bottles would do it and I don't mean you should demand the last bit from your psyche and your self-confidence and rummage for bottles from the trash can at the train stations! Just go for a walk and keep your eyes open. Sooo as you probably notice I have nothing clever to say ... So I do not do that either 😜 get well soon
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I do not understand... can you not even please FULLY explain this to me? 🎶🎶🎶 But if it goes a little more compact... Is that even possible to explain something in detail and compactly at the same time? Preferably with pictures. Self painted ifs geht.. That would be great ... It seems that you have nothing else in mind when you write such long texts that seem to have lost the ¿? Seriousness ¿? The matter should make me understand 🐣
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hej, what when how much Debt accumulated, paid off etc. you do not need to quantify here to justify your problem. Whether the actual extent is clear to you in the full extent, I do strongly doubt. But it is unimportant for the time being, because here it is about your call for help itself!
I must trozdem still get rid of one before I come to the actual, was I would like to say to you:
1. Not everyone has the same starting possibilities! => the accumulation of money debts,
in the amount of several "tens of thousands of euros +" make possible at all!!!
2. It is SHIT-EGAL whether one is with 100,000€ in the miesen or with 3,000€
- What one does not have one does not have!
What appears to the one as small stuff, compared to the amount of the own indebtedness which does not let him sleep at night before existential worries - is measured completely alone from his perspective -
* * *
only because this person would have 3000Euro still without further together - this him however not in the beginning would be enough around its own disaster to turn away -
justifies no devaluation of the existence worries of the other!
Probably the situation of the one, which the 3000Euro the water up to the neck leave, is more dramaticallyand real existentially threatening than its own, at this time!
Where no assets in any kind are present, which one can make in height of 3000€ to money, there everything is exhausted which only somehow goes!
Then it is often about serious imminent problems,
like threatening homelessness u.o. even more fundamental like food!
ONLY ASSHOLES DO PROBLEMS OF OTHERS AS SMALL STUFF! They are far from any reality!
point and end!
* * *
Dear Slot_Star I do not know it exactly but suspect that there are several causes than only the gambling addiction, as a reason for your NOW situation! But that does not make it less real, you have in any case not yet lost. because you mirror yourself what one can clearly read out from your self-assessment! That makes it for your perceived suffering first not better, if one is clear but does not find out of it - but the most important condition for a recovery!
Fact is you do not manage it from alone - therefore you look for help! Don't necessarily start with the gambling addiction if you don't find something right away! Go to a specialist and get yourself admitted to a good inpatient clinic, where you can work out an approach to healing in peace and quiet. Whether you're hanging around at home or somewhere else on a recreational tour....ne
I wish you all the best!
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i'm sorry but I don't have enough crayons to make you understand anything and I've already lost enough of my valuable time. With people who are as dumb as 3m dirt road, the basis for any further debate is unnecessary for me
so long..
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I always stay away from people who don't have enough crayons at home. They should first get their lives in order
Because of this, the basis for any further knowledge of your monologue is also unnecessary for me
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Can only advise you, look for a job!
Unemployed and gambling?
From the money of those who go to work every day?
Then crying around here because of 300 € ...
When I read something like that I could only
You I would completely cut off all funds ...then zockst also no longer ...
29 years and live with parents ...what went wrong with you ?
Peace out
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and with you everything went smoothly, yes? soso. well then everything is in order...
@ Slot_Star: The suggestion with the therapy is not a bad one. Depression is not a small thing & without professional help it will probably not get better so easily. Sometimes it needs supportive medication as well. It would be good if someone could help you find a therapist (finding a good therapist is like winning the lottery). Maybe you can confide in someone who can help you with the first steps. It would be a shame to hit the sack right now.
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Here I see myself somewhat in it. I think it could help you personally especially if you find a job. Not necessarily because of the work itself, but because of the social environment at work. But of course I don't know what kind of situation you're in, so I can't judge that.
I think that you have to work a lot on yourself in particular. Please write me in the Communicator what you were thinking when you asked me a shitty/cheeky/stupid question when I was feeling really shitty two weeks ago. Since you didn't write back, I'd be really interested in the thought process behind it.
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