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23rd Jul. 2021, at 08:40 am CEST#12
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Dude123 wrote on 23.07.2021 at 07:52: Yes maybe but I think with such a sentence you completely give away your responsibility
He erlichtert his guilty conscience, and the woman has to decide that then
What is that man? I understand if you leave me
Responsibility is to recognize and act so the conversation was, already right
But the sentence lets with me bombs burst because he is garbage
I can also understand your point of view
But I think it is not only about the conscience, but also about confessing the situation and to get a kind of control by the woman, because he himself does not manage to get it under control
He probably wanted to express that he is ready to bear the consequences and that he is aware that it is not done with admitting the matter and peace and joy...
But yes, the better way would probably be to make it a topic with the goal to tackle it as a team... Probably he wanted to take pressure off his wife with the statement about the separation, but as you say, he probably achieved the opposite and subconsciously took some pressure off himself.
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 08:42 am CEST#13
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Stromberg, meanwhile I earn quite well, you should not believe how clouded a brain is in the madness...
And you hit it on the point, at the point that I have understanding for everything, it was about what had happened...
Why she did not notice it, I can not really say, of course every gambler can lie and that in perfection, of course there were always many open bills, with which one could explain why there is no money, but she had no idea so much is certain.
Still, thanks for the encouraging words.
As I said, I just wanted to tell my story in short form and just encourage those who might be thinking of quitting. ✌️
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 09:35 am CEST#15
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I guess that you either misinterpret his text, or did not understand his contribution?
And contrary to your assertion that he does not want to take responsibility for his actions, he does exactly the opposite.
He takes responsibility for his actions and has written that he has understanding for his wife, should she leave him because of the "incidents".
And as far as incidents are concerned, maybe you should talk to a relative of an addict.
Quite a few people really have a lot of very unpleasant experiences with an addict...
Often trust is abused, lied to, cheated on, money is embezzled, one's own family, friends, acquaintances and others are dragged into the abyss, etc., etc.
Rather, here would be respect and respect for the TE appropriate, He has really written anything but "garbage"
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 10:06 am CEST#16
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Ichbins2018 wrote on 23.07.2021 at 09:35: I guess that you either misinterpret his text, or did not understand his post?!
And contrary to your assertion that he does not want to take responsibility for his actions, he does exactly the opposite.
He takes responsibility for his actions and has written that he has understanding for his wife, she should leave him because of the "incidents".
And as far as incidents are concerned, maybe you should talk to a relative of an addict.
Quite a few people really have a lot of very unpleasant experiences with an addict...
Often trust is abused, lied to, cheated on, money is embezzled, one's own family, friends, acquaintances and others are dragged into the abyss, etc., etc.
Rather, here would be respect and respect for the TE appropriate, He has really written anything but "garbage"
Thank you for your words, that's exactly how it is, I could bring in many things, what all has run, to cover up everything, just to be able to continue to play, but it brings nothing
I can say of myself that I have done everything right in the aftermath, even if much too late
Because it was also about the topic... The so-called basis, exactly and that can only work with absolute honesty
And I know I got it
It was not easy at all, really every minute you think about it, hop on a fast 50 zack zack and you have to permanently push yourself again and again to let this happen
That's why if you don't come clean it's never going to work and that feeling of I have to play eventually goes away
I can say I have developed a real disgust, that helps a lot
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 10:47 am CEST#17
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His sentence was garbage. That is my opinion.
The rest can be evaluated or not. But this should not be a role model in terms of addiction help
It's like he is now the woman and she is the man.
So calm down. I don't despise people who create
I judge their writing by helpful or not helpful
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 11:12 am CEST#18
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Dude123 wrote on 07/23/2021 at 10:47 am: His sentence was garbage. That's my opinion.
You can rate the rest or not. But this should not be a role model in addiction help
It's like he is now the woman and she is the man.
So calm down. I don't despise people who create
I evaluate their writing by helpful or not helpful
To your thesis, why am I the woman now, just because you clear the air and start from 0, so to speak. This does not create a role reversal
You have not understood the sense of the message, it is also ok, you have your opinion and can represent this of course, nevertheless again, I had simply only the need to divide me in a forum in which I was also surely 2 years active, I think that is also free to me
And I can also add that I still take care of the finances, with the only change that my wife if she wants it at any time can have an account kick.... This has not happened yet, but it is nice to know that if she wants it I don't have to have a guilty conscience
And it was not briefly about the topic triggern, triggern can do a lot, it does not need a forum, on the contrary, it is even good to share with one or the other like-minded, in this sense in everything you do, good luck✌️
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 11:16 am CEST#19
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There is a kind of female addictive behavior
That means I give responsibility to my wife and children that they carry it along
The 60000.because it is their renunciation
To get female seeking is to manipulate, to lie, to leave, to cover up
And if it comes out I am quite gracious and tell her that she may go.
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He extinguishes his guilty conscience, and the woman has to decide that then
What is that man? I understand if you leave me
Responsibility is to recognize and act so the conversation was, already right
But the sentence lets bombs burst with me because it is garbage
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I can also understand your point of view
But I think it is not only about the conscience, but also about confessing the situation and to get a kind of control by the woman, because he himself does not manage to get it under control
He probably wanted to express that he is ready to bear the consequences and that he is aware that it is not done with admitting the matter and peace and joy...
But yes, the better way would probably be to make it a topic with the goal to tackle it as a team... Probably he wanted to take pressure off his wife with the statement about the separation, but as you say, he probably achieved the opposite and subconsciously took some pressure off himself.
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And you hit it on the point, at the point that I have understanding for everything, it was about what had happened...
Why she did not notice it, I can not really say, of course every gambler can lie and that in perfection, of course there were always many open bills, with which one could explain why there is no money, but she had no idea so much is certain.
Still, thanks for the encouraging words.
As I said, I just wanted to tell my story in short form and just encourage those who might be thinking of quitting. ✌️
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With this sentence structure I understand nothing more!
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And contrary to your assertion that he does not want to take responsibility for his actions, he does exactly the opposite.
He takes responsibility for his actions and has written that he has understanding for his wife, should she leave him because of the "incidents".
And as far as incidents are concerned, maybe you should talk to a relative of an addict.
Quite a few people really have a lot of very unpleasant experiences with an addict...
Often trust is abused, lied to, cheated on, money is embezzled, one's own family, friends, acquaintances and others are dragged into the abyss, etc., etc.
Rather, here would be respect and respect for the TE appropriate, He has really written anything but "garbage"
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Thank you for your words, that's exactly how it is, I could bring in many things, what all has run, to cover up everything, just to be able to continue to play, but it brings nothing
I can say of myself that I have done everything right in the aftermath, even if much too late
Because it was also about the topic... The so-called basis, exactly and that can only work with absolute honesty
And I know I got it
It was not easy at all, really every minute you think about it, hop on a fast 50 zack zack and you have to permanently push yourself again and again to let this happen
That's why if you don't come clean it's never going to work and that feeling of I have to play eventually goes away
I can say I have developed a real disgust, that helps a lot
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The rest can be evaluated or not. But this should not be a role model in terms of addiction help
It's like he is now the woman and she is the man.
So calm down. I don't despise people who create
I judge their writing by helpful or not helpful
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To your thesis, why am I the woman now, just because you clear the air and start from 0, so to speak. This does not create a role reversal
You have not understood the sense of the message, it is also ok, you have your opinion and can represent this of course, nevertheless again, I had simply only the need to divide me in a forum in which I was also surely 2 years active, I think that is also free to me
And I can also add that I still take care of the finances, with the only change that my wife if she wants it at any time can have an account kick.... This has not happened yet, but it is nice to know that if she wants it I don't have to have a guilty conscience
And it was not briefly about the topic triggern, triggern can do a lot, it does not need a forum, on the contrary, it is even good to share with one or the other like-minded, in this sense in everything you do, good luck✌️
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That means I give responsibility to my wife and children that they carry it along
The 60000.because it is their renunciation
To get female seeking is to manipulate, to lie, to leave, to cover up
And if it comes out I am quite gracious and tell her that she may go.
No this is female behavior and amazes me.
As I said just the one shitty sentence
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