Hello,
I was previously registered here and yes even if you always say you're not addicted... I do not want to attack anyone, but I think sogut like everyone is this, who moves in any way even in these forums.
My long long way out of this addiction or you ever get out of an addiction, I do not know, but you learn to live with it and the life afterwards is really absolutely cool, I can promise.
Everyone knows it just this feeling, if you are grabbed or also runs hot, it is so far that you have a feeling for it, then it is long over.
Yes also I am one of these lucky winners of the 1rsten hours and the career over tens of years the one or the other here only to good knows, which ran absolutely escalate in the wrong direction.
The end of the song just under 60k Debt and nothing to eat neither wife nor child nor me.
Sure I know everyone says how can you only, wrong... Everyone who has a problem, but still knows what he is doing and gambles away, but how can I say, it happens again and again and again.
How could it happen, quite easy actually
One treats himself to Un] ählige small loan, pushes quite a few credit cards over several years and already nothing more stands in the way. However, what is missing are the repayments, because they are already spent, oops we have only the 3tten in the month. And so it goes for years, I could tell thousands of stories here at the point how to get money but I leave that now deliberately.
End of the song was December 2020, once again the beginning of the month, once again nothing to eat, Christmas gifts not to think about. It came as it had to come, I finally did that, where I had been for some time immerwieder with gehadert
I shared myself with the person who had given me my 2 wonderful sons, my wife. And I also told her plainly, if she leaves me right now, she needs to have 0.0 guilt feelings and I have absolute understanding for everything that will happen. Short and sweet to the conclusion, meanwhile I pay back the whole crap, since I earn quite well we even have money to go out to eat again, if I get even 0.1% the feeling that I could even think about gambling, I immediately turn to my wife and talk, this is the most alkerwichtigste in this case and I wish everyone who intends to stop, that he packs it, 8 months abstinence and that's good.
Nerver give up people
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22nd Jul. 2021, at 08:25 pm CEST#2
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You talk, write and justify yourself like a girl
Are you not a man?
What are you whining here in the forum instead of writing the next days I have, grabbed my, wife and, was honest. She is a woman she loves men because of honesty and, not because of women's fuss and sneakiness
A man does not say I can understand if she, leaves me
A man says my, family is my, base
The addiction is just my change
Instead your family is the change from the, addiction
This is how you should think if you were really absent minded
Your text reads like you are unconsciously planning the next relapse
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22nd Jul. 2021, at 08:38 pm CEST#3
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I can't do much with the post either, were you on drugs when you wrote this post. Do you have any need to share? Why don't you call the worry line? I'm sure they have an ear for such emotional stories. Go to your wife and tell her that you are a strong man again and that you can resist the evil one-armed bandits - she will be infinitely proud of you, maybe you will be given a wonderful daughter with shining blue eyes and a divine laugh - that would be something, wouldn't it?
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Dude and Gambler, I didn't make a call to brainless idiots and no I don't do drugs.
I also do not need sympathy or anything else, but just from your comments you can read your frustration.
On the subject of family is my base, ge au so it is you have apparently understood, but apart from you times there are 10000sende "strong" men who just secretly gamble.
And now explain what it is for a base, if you cheat your base???
And I can reassure you, no I do not "plan" a relapse, there are by far better things than what you two spend your day with.
I am of the opinion that this is a forum and here you can contribute and this should be respected, with you two I can unfortunately only say... embarrassing, you should be banned directly, but these are the tasks of others here,
In this sense
I would like to ask all of you to take it down a notch.
As far as I can tell, Bow82 just wanted to tell the community about his experience and situation, and he is definitely entitled to do so, so I don't understand why you have to attack him like this.
It is in my eyes something good that he has managed to stay abstinent for 8 months after such a difficult time, and I also think it's cool to be able to read such experiences and the development after such a time.
@Bow82 - I hope you don't take these negative posts too much to heart and we at GambleJoe still wish you all the strength and success for the future!
However, you must not forget that due to your history here on GambleJoe you may be at Risk of being triggered in some way regarding gambling, so I would like to point out for safety's sake that you have the option to delete yourself from GambleJoe at any time by clicking on "DeleteAccount" under Settings, and you can also contact one of us if you wish to be banned.
Thank you Julian for your contribution and also thank you for your comment.
Regarding the triggering I do not worry any more, because it is definitely so that you have to allow things so that it happens and I know that I am now consolidated and that will not happen to me again.
I was there before and found the forum actually always very good, of course there are alwayswieder people who make unnecessary comments, mostly frustrated people, I do not give much on it.
It was me per Se simply about me also times to communicate and maybe it helps one or the other, that is my einzigst er incentive been.
Good Luck to everyone
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 07:04 am CEST#8
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@Bow82
I find great that you have dared this step and have done.
I know it only too well.
Have my former boyfriend or life partner because of Gambling addiction in front of the door.
Not because he gambled, but because he lied and cheated.
Ordered and sold goods in my name to get money for gambling.
But he was rather offline on the road.
It's good that it didn't come to that with you and that you cleared the air in advance.
That there are always people here who do not grant you anything or do not get along with their lives, you should not worry.
Go on this way and everything will be good someday.
60k Debt is not little but doable.
Wish you all the love and good for the future.
@gambler67
Think that you are rather under drugs with this contribution of you?
How can you write such nonsense?
Wish you all the love and good for the future.
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 07:06 am CEST#9
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No despite all the criticism I found your text more than, strangely
To register in a forum to help... Ok? But with what you can not give tips.... You've been easy on withdrawal already and thought in the forum you give good tips.
I believe you partly, but when I read the sentence... My wife can also leave me if I fall off the wagon again
That is not personal responsibility
That is just garbage for me
I can't imagine that such a thing should pass as advice to addicts
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23rd Jul. 2021, at 07:39 am CEST#10
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Dude123 wrote on 23.07.2021 at 07:06: No despite all the criticism I found your text more than, strange
Signing up to a forum to help... Ok? But with what you can't give tips.... You have been easily on withdrawal already and thought in the forum you give good tips.
I believe you partly but when I read the sentence... my wife can leave me if I fall off the wagon again
That is not personal responsibility
That is just garbage for me
I can't imagine that such a thing should pass as advice to addicts
Sorry 🙅♀️
Strictly speaking, he only said to his wife that he would understand if she left him. Not if he falls off the wagon, but because he gambled away for a long time the money that was missing for the family. Without her knowing about it.
Which leads me, however, to the question :
If you have 2 children and it lacks zb the money for gifts and, much worse, even partly for food, how could your wife not notice anything? Especially since you are earning well...
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I was previously registered here and yes even if you always say you're not addicted... I do not want to attack anyone, but I think sogut like everyone is this, who moves in any way even in these forums.
My long long way out of this addiction or you ever get out of an addiction, I do not know, but you learn to live with it and the life afterwards is really absolutely cool, I can promise.
Everyone knows it just this feeling, if you are grabbed or also runs hot, it is so far that you have a feeling for it, then it is long over.
Yes also I am one of these lucky winners of the 1rsten hours and the career over tens of years the one or the other here only to good knows, which ran absolutely escalate in the wrong direction.
The end of the song just under 60k Debt and nothing to eat neither wife nor child nor me.
Sure I know everyone says how can you only, wrong... Everyone who has a problem, but still knows what he is doing and gambles away, but how can I say, it happens again and again and again.
How could it happen, quite easy actually
One treats himself to Un] ählige small loan, pushes quite a few credit cards over several years and already nothing more stands in the way. However, what is missing are the repayments, because they are already spent, oops we have only the 3tten in the month. And so it goes for years, I could tell thousands of stories here at the point how to get money but I leave that now deliberately.
End of the song was December 2020, once again the beginning of the month, once again nothing to eat, Christmas gifts not to think about. It came as it had to come, I finally did that, where I had been for some time immerwieder with gehadert
I shared myself with the person who had given me my 2 wonderful sons, my wife. And I also told her plainly, if she leaves me right now, she needs to have 0.0 guilt feelings and I have absolute understanding for everything that will happen. Short and sweet to the conclusion, meanwhile I pay back the whole crap, since I earn quite well we even have money to go out to eat again, if I get even 0.1% the feeling that I could even think about gambling, I immediately turn to my wife and talk, this is the most alkerwichtigste in this case and I wish everyone who intends to stop, that he packs it, 8 months abstinence and that's good.
Nerver give up people
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Are you not a man?
What are you whining here in the forum instead of writing the next days I have, grabbed my, wife and, was honest. She is a woman she loves men because of honesty and, not because of women's fuss and sneakiness
A man does not say I can understand if she, leaves me
A man says my, family is my, base
The addiction is just my change
Instead your family is the change from the, addiction
This is how you should think if you were really absent minded
Your text reads like you are unconsciously planning the next relapse
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I also do not need sympathy or anything else, but just from your comments you can read your frustration.
On the subject of family is my base, ge au so it is you have apparently understood, but apart from you times there are 10000sende "strong" men who just secretly gamble.
And now explain what it is for a base, if you cheat your base???
And I can reassure you, no I do not "plan" a relapse, there are by far better things than what you two spend your day with.
I am of the opinion that this is a forum and here you can contribute and this should be respected, with you two I can unfortunately only say... embarrassing, you should be banned directly, but these are the tasks of others here,
In this sense
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As far as I can tell, Bow82 just wanted to tell the community about his experience and situation, and he is definitely entitled to do so, so I don't understand why you have to attack him like this.
It is in my eyes something good that he has managed to stay abstinent for 8 months after such a difficult time, and I also think it's cool to be able to read such experiences and the development after such a time.
@Bow82 - I hope you don't take these negative posts too much to heart and we at GambleJoe still wish you all the strength and success for the future!
However, you must not forget that due to your history here on GambleJoe you may be at Risk of being triggered in some way regarding gambling, so I would like to point out for safety's sake that you have the option to delete yourself from GambleJoe at any time by clicking on "DeleteAccount" under Settings, and you can also contact one of us if you wish to be banned.
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Regarding the triggering I do not worry any more, because it is definitely so that you have to allow things so that it happens and I know that I am now consolidated and that will not happen to me again.
I was there before and found the forum actually always very good, of course there are alwayswieder people who make unnecessary comments, mostly frustrated people, I do not give much on it.
It was me per Se simply about me also times to communicate and maybe it helps one or the other, that is my einzigst er incentive been.
Good Luck to everyone
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I find great that you have dared this step and have done.
I know it only too well.
Have my former boyfriend or life partner because of Gambling addiction in front of the door.
Not because he gambled, but because he lied and cheated.
Ordered and sold goods in my name to get money for gambling.
But he was rather offline on the road.
It's good that it didn't come to that with you and that you cleared the air in advance.
That there are always people here who do not grant you anything or do not get along with their lives, you should not worry.
Go on this way and everything will be good someday.
60k Debt is not little but doable.
Wish you all the love and good for the future.
@gambler67
Think that you are rather under drugs with this contribution of you?
How can you write such nonsense?
Wish you all the love and good for the future.
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To register in a forum to help... Ok? But with what you can not give tips.... You've been easy on withdrawal already and thought in the forum you give good tips.
I believe you partly, but when I read the sentence... My wife can also leave me if I fall off the wagon again
That is not personal responsibility
That is just garbage for me
I can't imagine that such a thing should pass as advice to addicts
Sorry 🙅♀️
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Strictly speaking, he only said to his wife that he would understand if she left him. Not if he falls off the wagon, but because he gambled away for a long time the money that was missing for the family. Without her knowing about it.
Which leads me, however, to the question :
If you have 2 children and it lacks zb the money for gifts and, much worse, even partly for food, how could your wife not notice anything? Especially since you are earning well...
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