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3rd Nov. 2018, at 08:44 pm CET#31
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Sigura43 wrote on 02/11/2018 at 22:05: To Idiot85 - Why do you fall off the wagon after 4 years ? One notices nevertheless ( I at least ), that one without playing, loosely again in the green area comes . Everything financial calms down again. At the beginning of the year I had 2 months rent arrears. The notice for the apartment came. I was right with the ass to the wall. I got me still fast money from friends to not have to leave my apartment. I would never have thought to get into this situation. From then on came the turn, that is, I rethought. One works hard, and throws it to the Casino's quasi on salary day again in the throat. So it did not go on. Now, months later I pay my rent correctly again. I can sleep calmly again, and I even save - and not a little . I lead a quiet, pleasant life again . I read through topics and comments here every evening . My impression: many are too busy with casino. Sure, I will also Deposit somewhere times 20 euros. But in general I am cured of huge stakes and many thoughts of online casinos. It's just a pleasant life again .
Hello my dear, sorry I was On the road - right, I was 4 years gambling free, financially I was relatively okay. Then my former boyfriend ( he wasn't one ) kept bugging me and encouraging me to gamble, I went along and lost 250 euros that day, which is a lot of money! On the days I lost 1750 and was back in the addiction. I can tell you I was all the way down from wealthy to almost broke, I don't wish that on anyone. Money comes and goes, but the worries, the fears, your nature, your outward appearance all change negatively. I was that type arrogant, good looking, well dressed, good job! I could never accept defeat. If you had a real day in intoxication, e.g. with gambling, you don't care about anything, you don't drink, you look like shit afterwards, you are not hungry, your wallet is on its last legs. You have debts, creditors, your girlfriend threatens to break up with you and you don't care. You are still in this world that only harms you. I will never be completely free of gambling, but I have learned what 50 euros are worth, that you can live well for 1 week, eat well. At that time I didn't care if I had 50 or 5000, it was just me and the Spielo. The first rule is as a player, never take a lot of money, never your cards, when you play do not go to the bank but home and shit on your loss! That's what you have to learn, the loss, the lost money you want to have it back. A deadly game. I just want to warn and help if I can, I have 11 years of gambling experience, what I regret the most is the loss of precious time, as well as the disappointments of the people in me. To play online, the same applies, please set yourself limits or you will go bust. You have to appreciate the value of money that is very important.
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3rd Nov. 2018, at 08:48 pm CET#32
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For all of you who don't want to learn, or smile at you, I can only tell you that if you ever get really f**ked up, you'll remember what I said. Because one thing is for sure, an addiction always wins in the end. Please remember, you can change everything in life, it's all in your head.
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3rd Nov. 2018, at 10:02 pm CET#33
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Idiot85 wrote on 03/11/2018 at 20:44
Hello my dear, sorry I was On the road - right, I was 4 years gambling free, financially I was doing relatively okay. Then my former boyfriend ( he was not one ) kept bugging me and encouraging me to gamble, I went along and lost 250 euros that day, which is a lot of money! On the days I lost 1750 and was back in the addiction. I can tell you I was all the way down from wealthy to almost broke, I don't wish that on anyone. Money comes and goes, but the worries, the fears, your nature, your outward appearance all change negatively. I was that type arrogant, good looking, well dressed, good job! I could never accept defeat. If you had a real day in intoxication, e.g. with gambling, you don't care about anything, you don't drink, you look like shit afterwards, you are not hungry, your wallet is on its last legs. You have debts, creditors, your girlfriend threatens to break up with you and you don't care. You are still in this world that only harms you. I will never be completely free of gambling, but I have learned what 50 euros are worth, that you can live well for 1 week, eat well. At that time I didn't care if I had 50 or 5000, it was just me and the Spielo. The first rule is as a player, never take a lot of money, never your cards, when you play do not go to the bank but home and shit on your loss! That's what you have to learn, the loss, the lost money you want to have it back. A deadly game. I just want to warn and help if I can, I have 11 years of gambling experience, what I regret the most is the loss of precious time, as well as the disappointments of the people in me. To play online, the same applies, please set yourself limits or you will go bust. You have to appreciate the value of money that is very important.
"I will never be completely free of gambling..." why do you think that, if you don't mind me asking?
"I was that guy Arrogant, good looking, well dressed, good job!" You are/have none of that anymore?
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3rd Nov. 2018, at 10:16 pm CET#34
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Idiot85 wrote on 11/03/2018 at 8:48 pm: For those who don't want to learn, or smile at you, all I can tell you is if you ever get really f**ked up, you'll remember what I said. Because one thing is for sure, an addiction always wins the over hand in the end. Please remember, you can change everything in life, it's all in your head.
You contradict yourself a bit, but you say something right: it's all in the head. Anyone can quit and for many that is better.
The addiction is strong, but it is not impossible to stop. I think anyone can if they want to, really anyone.
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3rd Nov. 2018, at 10:40 pm CET#35
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Disburser wrote on 03/11/2018 at 22:02
"i will never be completely game free..." why do you think that, if you don't mind me asking?
"I was that guy Arrogant, good looking, well dressed, good job!" You are/have none of that anymore?
Arrogant no, good looking matter of opinion, job going. But my point is sometimes you need a punch in the face first to come down to earth. I will always play but there is no compulsion anymore. It was different in the past. Sure, I can do everything, defeat if necessary, I wanted to be honest. I think playing will accompany me for years to come, certainly in sports betting, which is a hobby for me. I will always play but with limits and I have learned to be able to lose that is enormously important. I am attracted to the thrill of playing I am aufjedenfall happy that there is this forum, you can exchange.
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26th Nov. 2018, at 04:17 pm CET#36
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Find it full cool how you discuss the topic! Just a great community!
Sure I am always "tested"
Two weeks ago, for example, as I have seen REALLY ACCIDENTALLY the odds for Dortmund vs. Bayern.... I knew 99% that Dortmund wins.... a delicious 4 odds.... since I would have loved to immediately invested € 300...
BUT
Immediately came the against thought... NO! You need the 300 € for the shares and the savings plan in 2 weeks
Sure I would have won 1200 € but no one knows before...
One is always tested.... as the whole just with Montanablack (a Youtuber) and the casinos again made waves in the media... I also briefly considered... a round of Blackjack would now be so cool...... but no.... fight against it and stay true!
Saving is going great and on the stock market everything is going well (although just a lot of red numbers are written in some companies)
You feel free, free from all money worries. Going to a restaurant with your girlfriend and not looking at the price is the coolest feeling there is. I never want to miss this feeling again!
But that only works if you stay away from such money rip-offs.
I will always fight against it and I know I will not lose this fight. With a mindset like that, you've almost certainly won!
Also, I find, motivate women to do so. Women find men who gamble really UNATTRACTIVE, that's a fact. You can still look so cool with a six pack and so.... if a man gambles he is a real abturner
And exactly to such men, I never want to belong again! Without offending them but for me these men have NO LIFE!
We are damn there to move something and everyone has these opportunities!
What my goals are in the meantime?
If it goes on like this, I can easily retire 10 years earlier than a "normalo"
In 2-3 years I would like to inform me further on the real estate market. So the knowledge grows and thus the gambling moves further and further into the shadow
Everyone can make it!
If you stop NOW, you can NOT LOSE ONE CENT MORE. That is FACT!
Awesome quote: The best roll of the dice is to throw them away.
I want to keep this thread up to date and will post in every now and then
I am always happy about new comments and remain with many greetings
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26th Nov. 2018, at 04:46 pm CET#37
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table1 wrote on 11/26/2018 at 4:17 pm: Find it totally cool how you guys discuss the topic! Just an awesome community!
Sure I am always "tested"
Two weeks ago, for example, as I have seen REALLY ACCIDENTALLY the odds for Dortmund vs. Bayern.... I knew 99% that Dortmund wins.... a delicious 4 odds.... since I would have loved to immediately invested € 300...
BUT
Immediately came the against thought... NO! You need the 300 € for the shares and the savings plan in 2 weeks
Sure I would have won 1200 € but no one knows before...
One is always tested.... as the whole just with Montanablack (a Youtuber) and the casinos again made waves in the media... I also briefly considered... a round of Blackjack would now be so cool...... but no.... fight against it and stay true!
Saving is going great and on the stock market everything is going well (although just a lot of red numbers are written in some companies)
You feel free, free from all money worries. Going to a restaurant with your girlfriend and not looking at the price is the coolest feeling there is. I never want to miss this feeling again!
But that only works if you stay away from such money rip-offs.
I will always fight against it and I know I will not lose this fight. With a mindset like that, you've almost certainly won!
Also, I find, motivate women to do so. Women find men who gamble really UNATTRACTIVE, that's a fact. You can still look so cool with a six pack and so.... if a man gambles he is a real abturner
And exactly to such men, I never want to belong again! Without offending them but for me these men have NO LIFE!
We are damn there to move something and everyone has these opportunities!
What my goals are in the meantime?
If it goes on like this, I can easily retire 10 years earlier than a "normalo"
In 2-3 years I would like to inform me further on the real estate market. So the knowledge grows and thus the gambling moves further and further into the shadow
Everyone can make it!
If you stop NOW, you can NOT LOSE ONE CENT MORE. That is FACT!
Awesome quote: The best roll of the dice is to throw them away.
I want to keep this thread up to date and will post in every now and then
I am always happy about new comments and remain with many greetings
However, shares are also in the strong remote sense "gambling" and buy real estate can also go wrong. Only the total loss is less likely and you may not get addicted to it as quickly. Your way of thinking "Going to a restaurant with your girlfriend and not looking at the price is the coolest feeling there is. I never want to miss this feeling again!" I find a bit questionable, why should I suddenly not pay so much attention to my money and throw it all out? Maybe you meant it more in the sense of you don't have to turn over every cent twice, but with your formulations you actually insult everyone here who plays. You defame the people to whom you belonged, the people who help others here every day or exchange opinions.
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3rd Dec. 2018, at 10:57 am CET#38
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Ankor wrote on 11/26/2018 at 4:46 pm
But stocks are also "gambling" in the strong remote sense and buying real estate can also go wrong. Only total loss is less likely and you may not get addicted to it as quickly. Your way of thinking "Going to a restaurant with your girlfriend and not looking at the price is the coolest feeling there is. I never want to miss this feeling again!" I find a bit questionable, why should I suddenly not pay so much attention to my money and throw it all out? Maybe you meant it more in the sense of you don't have to turn over every cent twice, but with your formulations you actually insult everyone here who plays. You defame the people to whom you belonged, the people who help others here every day or exchange opinions.
I don't play anymore myself.
Before you buy such things, you should already inform yourself
A small example
There are many people who buy a new iPhone for 1000 € every year. If these people would rather invest 1000 € annually in Apple shares, you would have much more of it and no loss of value in the long run. But many people don't understand that. I think you have a very similar mindset
There is always Risk but you can build something. It's like having your own business.
I think it is LIGHT YEARS better than this dirty gambling. At the end of the day you can't even compare.... I work properly with my finances.... have a budget book... knows what I may save, what I can treat myself, etc...
All these activities should actually do every person. Especially if you gamble, you need an overview
Honestly... I never had an overview there.... you act with emotions and forget to think rationally
And another thing.... may be that I may offend gamblers / gamblers but let's be honest.... it is either way a "crap" activity...
Why should I then approve of such people? I was one myself and used to insult myself in the mirror too, what happened to me and all. But that is just as true for everyone else
Of course not everyone can get out of addiction and the state earns so much money through taxes but there is not ONE REASON to define this whole activity as "nice"
I have broken off contact with two very close friends. They are very addicted to Slot machines and sports betting and are at Tipico pretty much every day
You have to distance yourself from such people and this is not an insult but a step in the right direction! (My opinion)
The two will never bring it to what (if the continue to change nothing in your life) so why should I spend another second with them time
Sure they did me good but only because this sports betting thing has connected us
Call me arrogant or whatever but it's the naked truth
We have a life and the point is to get the best out of it!
I want to retire as early as possible and I'm already setting the basic building blocks for that today
Everybody could do it but everybody has different interests and goals in life
I have shopped before for 100 € beautifully (food). During my gambling time I tried not to spend so much money on food so that I have more for gambling... Sorry but that is just sick and may also be offended such behavior
Right, I do not have to turn every penny and so it should be and not otherwise
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3rd Dec. 2018, at 11:34 am CET#39
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table1 wrote on 03.12.2018 at 10:57
Before you buy such things, you should already inform yourself
A small example
There are many people who buy a new iPhone every year for 1000 €. If these people would rather invest 1000 € annually in Apple shares, you would have much more of it and no loss of value in the long run. But many people don't understand that. I think you have a very similar mindset
There is always Risk but you can build something. It's like having your own business.
I think it is LIGHT YEARS better than this dirty gambling. At the end of the day you can't even compare.... I work properly with my finances.... have a budget book... knows what I may save, what I can treat myself, etc...
All these activities should actually do every person. Especially if you gamble, you need an overview
Honestly... I never had an overview there.... you act with emotions and forget to think rationally
And another thing.... may be that I may offend gamblers / gamblers but let's be honest.... it is either way a "crap" activity...
Why should I then approve of such people? I was one myself and used to insult myself in the mirror too, what happened to me and all. But that is just as true for everyone else
Of course not everyone can get out of addiction and the state earns so much money through taxes but there is not ONE REASON to define this whole activity as "nice"
I have broken off contact with two very close friends. They are very addicted to Slot machines and sports betting and are at Tipico pretty much every day
You have to distance yourself from such people and this is not an insult but a step in the right direction! (My opinion)
The two will never bring it to what (if the continue to change nothing in your life) so why should I spend another second with them time
Sure they did me good but only because this sports betting thing has connected us
Call me arrogant or whatever but it's the naked truth
We have a life and the point is to get the best out of it!
I want to retire as early as possible and I'm already setting the basic building blocks for that today
Everybody could do it but everybody has different interests and goals in life
I have shopped before for 100 € beautifully (food). During my gambling time I tried not to spend so much money on food so that I have more for gambling... Sorry but that is just sick and may also be offended such behavior
Right, I do not have to turn every penny and so it should be and not otherwise
Your enthusiasm in all honor, but still I would think twice before I want to move further on casino sites, if I want to leave the gambling once and for all be
You've already written that you were briefly hooked by certain YouTube content and the story about Montana Black
Good that you did not succumb to the temptation, but I would not only break off contact with people who gamble, as you did, but also everything else that has to do with it
LG
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3rd Dec. 2018, at 02:40 pm CET#40
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Well, the problem as a player is, as soon as you have a higher win you feel immortal, consequently the next probably hundreds of euros end up back at the casino. I can talk to it, so it was in the past always with me. It is important if one should win times to buy only something of it or if one has children, debts, family, to pay these off! A player always loses in the long run, unless you land a 100000 Euro hit, are smart enough to stop. Table, I give ankor already right with his words . At the end of the day, this is about gambling, be it spielo,onlineslots,soccer betting,stocks,securities,bitcoins,or anything else. I admire people who do and not always talk, so I always hope that people who really want to stop it also pull through and not babble like the class clown of yesteryear. .
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Hello my dear, sorry I was On the road - right, I was 4 years gambling free, financially I was relatively okay. Then my former boyfriend ( he wasn't one ) kept bugging me and encouraging me to gamble, I went along and lost 250 euros that day, which is a lot of money! On the days I lost 1750 and was back in the addiction. I can tell you I was all the way down from wealthy to almost broke, I don't wish that on anyone. Money comes and goes, but the worries, the fears, your nature, your outward appearance all change negatively. I was that type arrogant, good looking, well dressed, good job! I could never accept defeat. If you had a real day in intoxication, e.g. with gambling, you don't care about anything, you don't drink, you look like shit afterwards, you are not hungry, your wallet is on its last legs. You have debts, creditors, your girlfriend threatens to break up with you and you don't care. You are still in this world that only harms you. I will never be completely free of gambling, but I have learned what 50 euros are worth, that you can live well for 1 week, eat well. At that time I didn't care if I had 50 or 5000, it was just me and the Spielo. The first rule is as a player, never take a lot of money, never your cards, when you play do not go to the bank but home and shit on your loss! That's what you have to learn, the loss, the lost money you want to have it back. A deadly game. I just want to warn and help if I can, I have 11 years of gambling experience, what I regret the most is the loss of precious time, as well as the disappointments of the people in me. To play online, the same applies, please set yourself limits or you will go bust. You have to appreciate the value of money that is very important.
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"I will never be completely free of gambling..." why do you think that, if you don't mind me asking?
"I was that guy Arrogant, good looking, well dressed, good job!" You are/have none of that anymore?
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You contradict yourself a bit, but you say something right: it's all in the head. Anyone can quit and for many that is better.
The addiction is strong, but it is not impossible to stop. I think anyone can if they want to, really anyone.
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Arrogant no, good looking matter of opinion, job going. But my point is sometimes you need a punch in the face first to come down to earth. I will always play but there is no compulsion anymore. It was different in the past. Sure, I can do everything, defeat if necessary, I wanted to be honest. I think playing will accompany me for years to come, certainly in sports betting, which is a hobby for me. I will always play but with limits and I have learned to be able to lose that is enormously important. I am attracted to the thrill of playing I am aufjedenfall happy that there is this forum, you can exchange.
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Sure I am always "tested"
Two weeks ago, for example, as I have seen REALLY ACCIDENTALLY the odds for Dortmund vs. Bayern.... I knew 99% that Dortmund wins.... a delicious 4 odds.... since I would have loved to immediately invested € 300...
BUT
Immediately came the against thought... NO! You need the 300 € for the shares and the savings plan in 2 weeks
Sure I would have won 1200 € but no one knows before...
One is always tested.... as the whole just with Montanablack (a Youtuber) and the casinos again made waves in the media... I also briefly considered... a round of Blackjack would now be so cool...... but no.... fight against it and stay true!
Saving is going great and on the stock market everything is going well (although just a lot of red numbers are written in some companies)
You feel free, free from all money worries. Going to a restaurant with your girlfriend and not looking at the price is the coolest feeling there is. I never want to miss this feeling again!
But that only works if you stay away from such money rip-offs.
I will always fight against it and I know I will not lose this fight. With a mindset like that, you've almost certainly won!
Also, I find, motivate women to do so. Women find men who gamble really UNATTRACTIVE, that's a fact. You can still look so cool with a six pack and so.... if a man gambles he is a real abturner
And exactly to such men, I never want to belong again! Without offending them but for me these men have NO LIFE!
We are damn there to move something and everyone has these opportunities!
What my goals are in the meantime?
If it goes on like this, I can easily retire 10 years earlier than a "normalo"
In 2-3 years I would like to inform me further on the real estate market. So the knowledge grows and thus the gambling moves further and further into the shadow
Everyone can make it!
If you stop NOW, you can NOT LOSE ONE CENT MORE. That is FACT!
Awesome quote:
The best roll of the dice is to throw them away.
I want to keep this thread up to date and will post in every now and then
I am always happy about new comments and remain with many greetings
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However, shares are also in the strong remote sense "gambling" and buy real estate can also go wrong. Only the total loss is less likely and you may not get addicted to it as quickly. Your way of thinking "Going to a restaurant with your girlfriend and not looking at the price is the coolest feeling there is. I never want to miss this feeling again!" I find a bit questionable, why should I suddenly not pay so much attention to my money and throw it all out? Maybe you meant it more in the sense of you don't have to turn over every cent twice, but with your formulations you actually insult everyone here who plays. You defame the people to whom you belonged, the people who help others here every day or exchange opinions.
I don't play anymore myself.
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Before you buy such things, you should already inform yourself
A small example
There are many people who buy a new iPhone for 1000 € every year. If these people would rather invest 1000 € annually in Apple shares, you would have much more of it and no loss of value in the long run. But many people don't understand that. I think you have a very similar mindset
There is always Risk but you can build something. It's like having your own business.
I think it is LIGHT YEARS better than this dirty gambling. At the end of the day you can't even compare.... I work properly with my finances.... have a budget book... knows what I may save, what I can treat myself, etc...
All these activities should actually do every person. Especially if you gamble, you need an overview
Honestly... I never had an overview there.... you act with emotions and forget to think rationally
And another thing.... may be that I may offend gamblers / gamblers but let's be honest.... it is either way a "crap" activity...
Why should I then approve of such people? I was one myself and used to insult myself in the mirror too, what happened to me and all. But that is just as true for everyone else
Of course not everyone can get out of addiction and the state earns so much money through taxes but there is not ONE REASON to define this whole activity as "nice"
I have broken off contact with two very close friends. They are very addicted to Slot machines and sports betting and are at Tipico pretty much every day
You have to distance yourself from such people and this is not an insult but a step in the right direction! (My opinion)
The two will never bring it to what (if the continue to change nothing in your life) so why should I spend another second with them time
Sure they did me good but only because this sports betting thing has connected us
Call me arrogant or whatever but it's the naked truth
We have a life and the point is to get the best out of it!
I want to retire as early as possible and I'm already setting the basic building blocks for that today
Everybody could do it but everybody has different interests and goals in life
I have shopped before for 100 € beautifully (food). During my gambling time I tried not to spend so much money on food so that I have more for gambling... Sorry but that is just sick and may also be offended such behavior
Right, I do not have to turn every penny and so it should be and not otherwise
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Your enthusiasm in all honor, but still I would think twice before I want to move further on casino sites, if I want to leave the gambling once and for all be
You've already written that you were briefly hooked by certain YouTube content and the story about Montana Black
Good that you did not succumb to the temptation, but I would not only break off contact with people who gamble, as you did, but also everything else that has to do with it
LG
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