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Gambling addiction in general: Lend money to a gambling addict

Topic created on 21st Apr. 2019 | Page: 1 of 2 | Answers: 11 | Views: 4,241
gamble1
Legend

Lend money to a gambling addict

21st Apr. 2019, at 06:10 pm CEST#1
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Hello dear

i have a short story and then a few questions vill you can give me tips

I have a buddy with whom I regularly went to gambling halls he quickly gambled away all his wages plus other money

Then it started at some point that he borrowed 50 € several times he always paid it back whether it was through a win or through salary etc.

The whole accumulated by 50 € bills but in the course of a year to first 5000 € and to the current stand 9800 € on

At first he gave me every time we went 100-200 € sometimes only 50-100 € but then when his money was gone again borrowed a few 50 € for the rest of the evening

I quickly realized that you can not reduce the Debt mountain and told him he should leave it until he has everything together and just put something on the side about it he was very happy because it was considered a relief for him

It came as it had to come he let the dates pass and became increasingly angry

The whole thing drags on now about 4 years and he does not even contact me and can not be seen in the halls where I am and if he comes times he acts as if nothing is and gambles blithely further

I have learned through acquaintances that he has gambled away two loans and no longer receives money

Now to my questions

is there any possibility to ever see what of it I mean I have given him about 9000 € in cash in 50 € seem over a long period of time the whole unfortunately without evidence because the accumulated sum has also surprised me very quickly

i would like however after its deception the whole also not simply in such a way to leave I gave him always delay and him always trusted I believe also that he would give it to me immediately if he would have possibly the 10-fold at the disposal he waits presumably for the large win

but that will probably never happen but to be deceived like this is not ok in my opinion that's why I am not afraid to get my money back now

you find my behavior ok ?

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Begbie
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Lend money to a gambling addict

21st Apr. 2019, at 06:14 pm CEST#2
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the only thing that helps is the club:

https://www.moskau-inkasso.com/

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Become active and don't give your debtor a chance to escape. Did you lend money to your acquaintance - but he doesn't want to know about it anymore? Put an end to excuses and create facts - hire Moscow Debt Collection.

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Latino
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Lend money to a gambling addict

21st Apr. 2019, at 06:24 pm CEST#3
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If you want to take legal action against this "buddy" you will have to prove the Debt, can you do that?
In addition, he has obviously exhausted his financial resources. If nothing is to get then again really hard....

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S****8

Lend money to a gambling addict

21st Apr. 2019, at 06:35 pm CEST#4
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Begbie wrote on 04/21/2019 6:14 pm: the only thing that helps is the club:

https://www.moskau-inkasso.com/

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Become active and don't give your debtor a chance to escape. Have you lent money to your acquaintance - but he doesn't want to know about it anymore? Put an end to excuses and create facts - hire Moscow Debt Collection.

and how do they want to get money from someone who has none left?
Chain them to the car and drag them behind?
About this Assi association were already many Wildwestmanieren known and all ran in the nothing ...therefore nonsense such people to assign!

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S****8

Lend money to a gambling addict

21st Apr. 2019, at 06:39 pm CEST#5
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If you have no proof then you will never get your money !

Had that once too.

But I had everything receipted and then went through a judicial dunning procedure ...can any normal citizen.

It takes time but makes an impression, to get a yellow letter ...

Money I had then immediately get.

Because the fear of getting a visit from a OGV is very high.

Especially the associated inconvenience such as Schufa, Creditreform, etc

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Anonym

Lend money to a gambling addict

21st Apr. 2019, at 07:21 pm CEST#6
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If you have not put this in writing, it looks bleak. But as sweep already said, you can try a dunning procedure. But if he is already hardened, he won't care, especially since he knows that the opening of proceedings costs money, which you would have to advance.

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Timo0510
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Lend money to a gambling addict

22nd Apr. 2019, at 01:05 am CEST#7
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Borrow money from me. the Debt you do not pay only once

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Saphira
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Lend money to a gambling addict

22nd Apr. 2019, at 01:20 am CEST#8
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I suppose you can forget about the borrowed money until he has earned a larger sum and can easily pay you back what he has borrowed, so to speak. Until then, you obviously can't hope for anything either. The meeting with you is certainly embarrassing for him until then. Just talk to him about it later. At the moment your connection is definitely disturbed. He in panic, you in hope to get your money

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RuhrPottProll
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Lend money to a gambling addict

22nd Apr. 2019, at 06:10 am CEST#9
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mEAL! 😎
my opinion? so....if you someone, whether "colleague", friend or brother-in-law, from which you know that he gambles away his money somewhat "uncontrolled", over a period of a year and longer, again and again coal "lend", you are 'n piece of it yourself stupid. (is not meant badly!) I mean: what you have

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RuhrPottProll
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Lend money to a gambling addict

22nd Apr. 2019, at 06:31 am CEST#10
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RuhrPottProll wrote on 22/04/2019 at 06:10: mahlzeit! 😎
my opinion? so....if you someone, whether "colleague", friend or brother-in-law, from which you know that he gambles away his money somewhat "uncontrolled", over a period of a year and longer, again and again coal "lend", you are 'n piece of it yourself stupid. (no offense meant!) i mean: what do you have?

ah! why can't i edit this???
had written but viiiiiiuch more!!! 🧐💩

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