I can no longer do everything too late... only my girlfriend keeps me...
2nd Jul. 2023, at 11:02 pm CEST#33
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frapi07 wrote on 01.07.2023 at 18:59:
Nice that at 43 you still haven't realized that people are different and react differently to bad events. Moreover, I admire your ability to judge people based on one post. That is a masterful achievement, respect!
He may be a whiner in your eyes, but in my eyes he deserves respect, because he has achieved a lot at 22 and even deserves more than some users here.
Many addictions are a luxury problem. But the brain cannot control it, it is manipulated. From addictions you can die and get serious diseases, alcohol, cigarettes. But Gambling addiction also makes you sick.
Because the brain is not designed for it.
It's not that simple. You have to take it seriously. It's a pity that the author of this article didn't come forward, we could have stood by him.
himmel80 wrote on 02.07.2023 at 23:41: Many addictions are a luxury problem. But the brain cannot control it, it is manipulated. From addictions you can die and get serious diseases, alcohol, cigarettes. But Gambling addiction also makes you sick.
Because the brain is not designed for that at all.
It's not that simple. You have to take it seriously. It's a pity that the author of this article didn't come forward, we could have stood by him.
But it's always like this here, when someone opens such a topic here, a first post is written and then you hear nothing more from these people. Otherwise, if such a thread should be opened again, there are also 3 counseling centers here exactly for such problems, which you can write privately, if you scroll all the way down. Since one is in such a situation probably also best kept.
I can no longer do everything too late... only my girlfriend keeps me...
3rd Jul. 2023, at 06:28 am CEST#36
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Tonka Bean wrote on 02.07.2023 at 22:59:
Apologize for what ?
The sound makes the music. Ever heard of it ?
Tonka Bean wrote on 02.07.2023 at 22:59:
Apologize for what ?
Because a 22 year old is not in control of his life ? [emj_11
Didn't write anything wrong - just what some here think but don't have the GUTS to make it public !
Just do not go with the crowd and make here one on Meldemuschi.
Think what you want - I also do - and since this is a forum, I may also write.
This TE has a problem yes but a luxury problem !!!!
You are of course free to have your own opinion. But you forget that here you write with people and everyone deserves to be addressed with respect. You have totally offended in the tone, whether you want to see that or not is your business. But please keep in mind that a large part of the community also sees it that way - even if you think that many wouldn't have the "guts" to write that way. We have all written the same as you, just with a different tone. That the TE has it good with his earnings, that he is still very young etc. etc.
I hope hereby you at least my point of view to have explained. You are of course free to think what you want. Of course, I do not force anyone to apologize or anything. I should have written that I would have done so in your place.
The TE deserves respect because he already earns 5k gross at the age of 22. Do you also have such successes to record?
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3rd Jul. 2023, at 09:41 am CEST#38
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slotliebe89 wrote on 07/03/2023 at 07:55 AM:
Such a thing can be taken note of. However, respect is earned with other things and not with the size of the paycheck.
Agree that the size of the paycheck doesn't earn you respect, but the fact of having achieved it at 22 is not without. I got my high school diploma and earned exactly 0€
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17th Jul. 2023, at 09:16 am CEST#40
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Hello Randomcapyu ,
by opening up to someone, you have already taken a first big step that requires a lot of courage - that alone is remarkable. It may sound paradoxical, but admitting defeat to addiction is the real win. Addiction is a disease that tells you that you don't have it.
The fact that this realization is at the same time slaying is very understandable to me. Big sums coming at you. But the fact that you're aware of it also means that you haven't fundamentally lost your connection to money. You didn't just lose the money at the machine, the machine gave you something else in return, maybe a distraction, a kick, or something else entirely. For the future, however, you can work on these things in other ways. Addiction counseling, self-help or therapy could help you. I can find you offers in your area if you contact me.
Of course, your outstanding debts will not disappear overnight. In the end, this is also something that is part of the change. The realization that believing you can solve all your problems overnight with a Jackpot is delusion. Nevertheless, the sums involved are still manageable, and you could agree to pay in installments or even go into private bankruptcy.
Last but not least, I would like to point out that suicide is a decision that cannot be reversed. There are many other options and ways to try that you can always revise. Suicide is here to stay. From experience in counseling, I can say that talking to others as you have done here already helps many. Given your situation, however, it is advisable to consider whether a gambling forum might not trigger you, so for acute help possibly the telephone counselling 0800 1110111 would also be something for you. Can you imagine giving it a try? Feel free to give me feedback. You are also welcome to contact me anonymously via chat at spielfrei.assisto.online.
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18th Jul. 2023, at 12:29 am CEST#41
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The self-destruction phase I have for a few years have not played until 25 and yes with me it is not so the sums as with him but I have no job and with the money I have available you come in no case to what you mean that you do not get what should I say then but not my completed teacher and am now 35 and get nothing done my partner also has the problem I just do not get along sometimes when I read something here yes you have a problem but I think you have enough I think if I had such a salary I wouldn't play at all I only play because I think it will be more but too often it isn't there have been phases yes I have won a little bit but because my expenses are always behind I had to pay you at some point yes in any case I can only advise you not to make any more debts because otherwise you won't get out of the loop like I did and believe me I have a reason to kill myself
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no matter what this becomes but I do not have to apologize for anything that corresponds to the truth !!!!
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For what respect ?
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Because the brain is not designed for it.
It's not that simple. You have to take it seriously. It's a pity that the author of this article didn't come forward, we could have stood by him.
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But it's always like this here, when someone opens such a topic here, a first post is written and then you hear nothing more from these people. Otherwise, if such a thread should be opened again, there are also 3 counseling centers here exactly for such problems, which you can write privately, if you scroll all the way down. Since one is in such a situation probably also best kept.
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The sound makes the music. Ever heard of it ?
You are of course free to have your own opinion. But you forget that here you write with people and everyone deserves to be addressed with respect. You have totally offended in the tone, whether you want to see that or not is your business. But please keep in mind that a large part of the community also sees it that way - even if you think that many wouldn't have the "guts" to write that way. We have all written the same as you, just with a different tone. That the TE has it good with his earnings, that he is still very young etc. etc.
I hope hereby you at least my point of view to have explained. You are of course free to think what you want. Of course, I do not force anyone to apologize or anything. I should have written that I would have done so in your place.
The TE deserves respect because he already earns 5k gross at the age of 22. Do you also have such successes to record?
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You can take note of something like that. Respect, however, is earned with other things and not with the size of the paycheck.
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Agree that the size of the paycheck doesn't earn you respect, but the fact of having achieved it at 22 is not without. I got my high school diploma and earned exactly 0€
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You can see what he makes out of it!
Gamble everything away 🤦♀️🤷♀️
And only because he earns with 22J - 5k gross, he gets no respect from me !
There I stand with my 7k gross pretty stupid there or
Let it be now.
We have now explained our point of view and everything is fine.
Have a great time everyone - I'm in the vacation mood now 😍👍
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Hello Randomcapyu ,
by opening up to someone, you have already taken a first big step that requires a lot of courage - that alone is remarkable. It may sound paradoxical, but admitting defeat to addiction is the real win. Addiction is a disease that tells you that you don't have it.
The fact that this realization is at the same time slaying is very understandable to me. Big sums coming at you. But the fact that you're aware of it also means that you haven't fundamentally lost your connection to money. You didn't just lose the money at the machine, the machine gave you something else in return, maybe a distraction, a kick, or something else entirely. For the future, however, you can work on these things in other ways. Addiction counseling, self-help or therapy could help you. I can find you offers in your area if you contact me.
Of course, your outstanding debts will not disappear overnight. In the end, this is also something that is part of the change. The realization that believing you can solve all your problems overnight with a Jackpot is delusion. Nevertheless, the sums involved are still manageable, and you could agree to pay in installments or even go into private bankruptcy.
Last but not least, I would like to point out that suicide is a decision that cannot be reversed. There are many other options and ways to try that you can always revise. Suicide is here to stay. From experience in counseling, I can say that talking to others as you have done here already helps many. Given your situation, however, it is advisable to consider whether a gambling forum might not trigger you, so for acute help possibly the telephone counselling 0800 1110111 would also be something for you. Can you imagine giving it a try? Feel free to give me feedback. You are also welcome to contact me anonymously via chat at spielfrei.assisto.online.
Best regards
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