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Gambling addiction in general: Easy come, easy go. (Page 7)

Topic created on 06th Feb. 2018 | Page: 7 of 9 | Answers: 80 | Views: 22,964
sonne10
Top Member
I currently pay only 3 times 20 euros a week in one of my casinos
When it wakes up it's fine for me ..I know in advance how much money I can lose highest in the month.
But even if it runs in the months just fine with me I do not pay in more
I am well in plus with it in the time
From April

https://www.gamblejoe.com/videos/chilli-heat-major-jackpot-geknackt/

https://www.gamblejoe.com/videos/book-of-dead-teil-2-von-090-zu-100-/

From March
https://www.gamblejoe.com/videos/freispiele-bei-imperial-opera/
https://www.gamblejoe.com/videos/mein-erster-gewinn-bei-slots-million/

https://www.gamblejoe.com/videos/von-4-auf-178-euro-in-justice-maschine/

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kvnhenne88
Visitor
Hello dear community,

it's been almost 6 months since my contribution to the forum. However, it feels a little longer. I would like to give you an update about my current situation.

First of all, I hope that at least you get along with your game behavior well and I wanted to thank you again for your feedback and your encouragement. In advance... Unfortunately they did not help me. Small flashback... I had over 40 000 euros in Debt, sold everything and lost all my possessions through highrolling. In the meantime, however, I won 13,000 euros and lost everything again within 2 days. Debts to banks, family, friends, partner and acquaintances.

In the beginning I was actually able to limit playing with real money. I only played with free spins several times and if I didn't win anything, I didn't win anything. I got along relatively well with that. Since I was in overdraft at that time and wanted to have it balanced, I borrowed more money through a bank that does not do a credit check, since German banks surprisingly did not want to pay my gambling addiction. This was then agreed to at some point. Thus, despite horrendous interest rates, I was actually well positioned to meet my obligations with my covered account and salary payments. Whether privately, with creditors or with banks. That was in the middle of April. At some point I won in a local casino, in which I let myself be lured, then actually times scarcely 2000 euro and was promptly again angefixt. In the following days and weeks, I kept winning large sums after making deposits, but lost them all the faster. I borrowed more money from friends and acquaintances. I already told my partner everything last year. Without her I would certainly not write these lines anymore. She supported me with all her means. Our relationship suffered from my Gambling addiction and was on the verge of collapse. Today, she believes, I no longer gamble. Again and again I managed to win money in the various casinos, which would be enough to meet my obligations on time. Each time, however, I gave in to my greed for more and lost euro after euro.

Rent debts, electricity costs, cell phone bill, installments with the bank, installments with various creditors, installments for the loan taken out by my girlfriend, installments with friends, family and acquaintances... all I could not and still cannot pay. Various requests for deferments written and received. Not complied with.

This month I wanted to make everything better. The salary, including wage deferrals, came. I wanted to make one more Deposit, since the salary would not be enough to make all the partial payments. No sooner said than done. I deposited 500 euros and hoped for a win of 1000 euros, which would be enough to live at least these 4 weeks until the next receipt. I played book of dead and started with 5 Euro per spin. After the 10th spin came the free spins and I won almost 6000 euros. I kept repeating to myself, let the money pay out and everything will be fine or better. But something in me was unreasonable again and hoped for a higher win. This unreasonableness gave me a win of 9230 Euro. As you can imagine, the stake was increased and I lost everything in the course of the session. Hardly any more wins worth mentioning. With renewed deposits to make up for the loss did not work for me, by the way. So now I sit here and write to you with 0.05 euros in my account. 2 days after receiving my salary and without any compensation payments. I am at the end.

In summary, I now have debts of over 65,000 euros, betrayed the trust of family and friends and already see the bailiff before me. I am seriously considering how to proceed in the future. Does a private insolvency make sense? Will this serve private creditors? Do I tell everyone involved about my addiction? Does my partner deserve a partner like me? Should I inform my employer? What do I tell my landlord? How do I make ends meet until my next salary? Questions upon questions, which I would never have had to ask myself without my addiction. My quality of life is incredibly low. I have great respect for all of you, the creators of gamblejoe, every member and all future players, however, I would like to emphasize something here again... Only play with money you don't need to live. Pay your bills and never p**s off family, friends and acquaintances. I didn't do all that and now I'm standing on the precipice looking down, but I'm still willing to turn around and walk in the right and safe direction. However, the way back from the abyss became more and more stony. However, I put all these stones there myself.

Love greetings

kvnhenne

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Anonym
kvnhenne88 wrote on 08/14/2018 at 17:10: Hello dear community,

just under 6 months ago now my contribution in the forum. However, it feels like a bit longer. I would like to give you an update on my current situation.

First of all, I hope that at least you get along with your game behavior well and I wanted to thank you again for your feedback and your encouragement. In advance... Unfortunately they did not help me. Small flashback... I had over 40 000 euros in Debt, sold everything and lost all my possessions through highrolling. In the meantime, however, I won 13,000 euros and lost everything again within 2 days. Debts to banks, family, friends, partner and acquaintances.

In the beginning I was actually able to limit playing with real money. I only played with free spins several times and if I didn't win anything, I didn't win anything. I got along relatively well with that. Since I was in overdraft at that time and wanted to have it balanced, I borrowed more money through a bank that does not do a credit check, since German banks surprisingly did not want to pay my gambling addiction. This was then agreed to at some point. Thus, despite horrendous interest rates, I was actually well positioned to meet my obligations with my covered account and salary payments. Whether privately, with creditors or with banks. That was in the middle of April. At some point I won in a local casino, in which I let myself be lured, then actually times scarcely 2000 euro and was promptly again angefixt. In the following days and weeks, I kept winning large sums after making deposits, but lost them all the faster. I borrowed more money from friends and acquaintances. I already told my partner everything last year. Without her I would certainly not write these lines anymore. She supported me with all her means. Our relationship suffered from my Gambling addiction and was on the verge of collapse. Today, she believes, I no longer gamble. Again and again I managed to win money in the various casinos, which would be enough to meet my obligations on time. Each time, however, I gave in to my greed for more and lost euro after euro.

Rent debts, electricity costs, cell phone bill, installments with the bank, installments with various creditors, installments for the loan taken out by my girlfriend, installments with friends, family and acquaintances... all I could not and still cannot pay. Various requests for deferments written and received. Not complied with.

This month I wanted to make everything better. The salary, including wage deferrals, came. I wanted to make one more Deposit, since the salary would not be enough to make all the partial payments. No sooner said than done. I deposited 500 euros and hoped for a win of 1000 euros, which would be enough to live at least these 4 weeks until the next receipt. I played book of dead and started with 5 Euro per spin. After the 10th spin came the free spins and I won almost 6000 euros. I kept repeating to myself, let the money pay out and everything will be fine or better. But something in me was unreasonable again and hoped for a higher win. This unreasonableness gave me a win of 9230 Euro. As you can imagine, the stake was increased and I lost everything in the course of the session. Hardly any more wins worth mentioning. With renewed deposits to make up for the loss did not work for me, by the way. So now I sit here and write to you with 0.05 euros in my account. 2 days after receiving my salary and without any compensation payments. I am at the end.

In summary, I now have debts of over 65,000 euros, betrayed the trust of family and friends and already see the bailiff before me. I am seriously considering how to proceed in the future. Does a private insolvency make sense? Will this serve private creditors? Do I tell everyone involved about my addiction? Does my partner deserve a partner like me? Should I inform my employer? What do I tell my landlord? How do I make ends meet until my next salary? Questions upon questions, which I would never have had to ask myself without my addiction. My quality of life is incredibly low. I have great respect for all of you, the creators of gamblejoe, every member and all future players, however, I would like to emphasize something here again... Only play with money you don't need to live. Pay your bills and never p**s off family, friends and acquaintances. I didn't do all that and now stand on the precipice looking down, yet willing to turn around and walk in the right and safe direction. However, the way back from the abyss became more and more stony. However, I put all these stones there myself.

"Puhhh" I had to read that twice... so now take a deep breath and approach the matter rationally. The fact is that you can't get out of it on your own for the time being. I can only tell you what I would do in your situation and what impression I could get from your writing here. It is clear that you are addicted and admit it to yourself, that you need help and that you have this clearly in mind. Put the cards on the table, invite your family, your partner and friends who are close to you and sit them at the table. Make it clear to them that you are sick and need their help, give your finances to your partner, mother, father someone you trust from them who wants to help you. Live with a fixed allowance and a spending book, don't leave any backdoor open how else you can get money, really give everything away. You have to learn again how to handle money like a child, we all feel the same way, hardly any player like us still really knows the value of money. Go as soon as possible to the doctor and arrange a Starionäre therapy you must get out of your comfort zone! Your family loves you they won't be disappointed, they won't be angry, they will be concerned and try to help you. Don't be afraid of what is in front of you, in my opinion it is the only way to save your face and yourself and others. I can assure you it will be easier, you have to realize that you will stop playing not only for yourself, but also for your family, your friends and your partner who loves you and is your anchor. That would be my way in your situation, I wish you all the best on your rocky road.

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RiverSong
Legend
have me times the trouble made and also your first post again by read. there is exactly the same in there only with other numbers and 6 months earlier do you notice it yourself?
even if my predecessor aims at the same thing I think it makes sense if several independent of each other write you something like this.
--> include all persons close to you and (almost all) persons affected immediately and also confess the successful attempts to get money, of which probably nobody knew.
--> immediately hand over control of your money to one or more persons you trust.

if you don't do it now, your debts will be the least of your burdens in the future --> this sentence alone should make you wake up.
if you believe your words, you have one of the worst behavioral traits one can have --> you can't pay out when you win
so you will always lose even if you win --> where should the win then come from if you come as in your example from 500€ to 6000€ to 9230€ up and down again until nothing more is there? with the next deposits certainly not.

do yourself a favor, never play again and follow the above points --> then it looks at least financially better in a few years.

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Anonym

Iseedeadpeople wrote on 14.08.2018 at 19:45: hab me times the effort made and also your first post again through read. there is exactly the same in there only with other numbers and 6 months earlier do you notice it yourself?
even if my predecessor aims at the same thing I think it makes sense if several independent of each other write you something like this.
--> include all persons close to you and (almost all) persons affected immediately and also confess the attempts behind the scenes.
--> immediately hand over control of your money to a person you trust.

if you don't do it now, your debts will be the least of your burdens in the future.
if you believe your words, you have one of the worst behavioral traits you can have --> you can't pay out when you win
so you will always lose even if you win --> where should the win come from if you get from 500€ to 6000€ to 9230€ like in your example and play down again until there is nothing left? with the next deposits certainly not.

do yourself a favor, never play again and follow the above points --> then it looks at least financially better in a few years.


I agree with this. It would be good if you never play again, because basically you can only lose. You have had very good wins and gambled them away again, even though you would have been out of the woods with them for the time being. What have you hoped for what should still happen? From therefore..Whether you Deposit and immediately lose and just what win (and that inevitably always again everything verspielst), you will never be able to win. Stop gambling, put your people around you the cards on the table and let someone else manage your money in the future!

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kvnhenne88
Visitor
Thank you for your answers and your advice. I am infinitely afraid to "lay my cards on the table". I know I will hurt everyone by doing this when they know what they lent me money for. In fact, it is the same as 6 months ago only with different numbers. But it is also the same as 6 months ago only with different numbers. I don't want to deny that. I did not manage to pay out at the right time and now I got the receipt for it.

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RiverSong
Legend

kvnhenne88 wrote on 08/14/2018 at 8:40 pm: Thank you for your responses and advice. I am infinitely afraid to "lay my cards on the table". I know I will hurt everyone by doing so when they know what they lent me money for. In fact, it is the same as 6 months ago only with different numbers. But it is also the same as 6 months ago only with different numbers. I don't want to deny that at all.


don't worry, some people already know it. your web of lies is collapsing, but rather now than in a month, so let's get it out in the next few days. i recommend telling everyone together instead of telling everyone individually.


I did not manage to pay out at the right time and now I got the receipt for it.

no you already got the receipt six months ago, unfortunately you didn't recognize the signs.

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Anonym
wettibernd wrote on 06.02.2018 at 12:21 pm: I myself have fought my way out of over 200000€ of Debt in 11 years, without insolvency but only with settlements. Now I still have exactly 600€ debt, 100€ in my wallet and about 450€ in the bank. As long as you are healthy and not fallen on your head you will get out of it, if it has to be with a private insolvency. So don't hang your head, life goes on and you just have to make the best of it. I think every gambler has been through something like this at least once.

Hello you,

well, your contributions are really good and I would like to write something here. I was also addicted to gambling until recently and I know how hard it is to get out of it and not to gamble anymore.

My career began about 6 years ago in the casino Bad Pyrmont. When I played there with approx. 100 euro capital automatic Roulette and after approx. 5 hours play suddenly over 1,000 euro in the hand had. That was an almost overwhelming cool feeling. I felt like a millionaire and life suddenly felt easy and carefree. If it's that easy to make money, well, do it again soon!

So it came then that I came from comfort also to Online Casinos and zockte there. first with only modest deposits and stakes, later then with higher stakes. it came of course what had to come. The wins became rarer and the losses became ever higher. I did not want to have this true and played on and on.

End of the song - 50,000 euros in debt and now private insolvency. Yes, I know that is bitter and I also do not expect any sympathy, because I am myself to blame! I write these lines here also only to warn other players. Please let the gambling be - in the long run you can not win - but you lose.

I also maintain that OC are scammers, although some of you here will argue against it. In my opinion, only real casinos like the state casinos are serious.

Now I am starting a new life, I have much less money to live on and can't afford many things, but I have paid my hard dues. I don't want to know in which gutter I would have ended up if I hadn't stopped gambling.

Private insolvency was the only solution, although the consequences are of course very hard. I will never get a loan again and even a change of residence is almost impossible because of a credit entry.


This should be a warning to all players.

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kvnhenne88 wrote on 08/14/2018 at 17:10: Hello dear community,

just under 6 months ago now my contribution in the forum. However, it feels like a bit longer. I would like to give you an update on my current situation.

First of all, I hope that at least you get along with your game behavior well and I wanted to thank you again for your feedback and your encouragement. In advance... Unfortunately they did not help me. Small flashback... I had over 40 000 euros in Debt, sold everything and lost all my possessions through highrolling. In the meantime, however, I won 13,000 euros and lost everything again within 2 days. Debts to banks, family, friends, partner and acquaintances.

In the beginning I was actually able to limit playing with real money. I only played with free spins several times and if I didn't win anything, I didn't win anything. I got along relatively well with that. Since I was in overdraft at that time and wanted to have it balanced, I borrowed more money through a bank that does not do a credit check, since German banks surprisingly did not want to pay my gambling addiction. This was then agreed to at some point. Thus, despite horrendous interest rates, I was actually well positioned to meet my obligations with my covered account and salary payments. Whether privately, with creditors or with banks. That was in the middle of April. At some point I won in a local casino, in which I let myself be lured, then actually times scarcely 2000 euro and was promptly again angefixt. In the following days and weeks, I kept winning large sums after making deposits, but lost them all the faster. I borrowed more money from friends and acquaintances. I already told my partner everything last year. Without her I would certainly not write these lines anymore. She supported me with all her means. Our relationship suffered from my Gambling addiction and was on the verge of collapse. Today, she believes, I no longer gamble. Again and again I managed to win money in the various casinos, which would be enough to meet my obligations on time. Each time, however, I gave in to my greed for more and lost euro after euro.

Rent debts, electricity costs, cell phone bill, installments with the bank, installments with various creditors, installments for the loan taken out by my girlfriend, installments with friends, family and acquaintances... all I could not and still cannot pay. Various requests for deferments written and received. Not complied with.

This month I wanted to make everything better. The salary, including wage deferrals, came. I wanted to make one more Deposit, since the salary would not be enough to make all the partial payments. No sooner said than done. I deposited 500 euros and hoped for a win of 1000 euros, which would be enough to live at least these 4 weeks until the next receipt. I played book of dead and started with 5 Euro per spin. After the 10th spin came the free spins and I won almost 6000 euros. I kept repeating to myself, let the money pay out and everything will be fine or better. But something in me was unreasonable again and hoped for a higher win. This unreasonableness gave me a win of 9230 Euro. As you can imagine, the stake was increased and I lost everything in the course of the session. Hardly any more wins worth mentioning. With renewed deposits to make up for the loss did not work for me, by the way. So now I sit here and write to you with 0.05 euros in my account. 2 days after receiving my salary and without any compensation payments. I am at the end.

In summary, I now have debts of over 65,000 euros, betrayed the trust of family and friends and already see the bailiff before me. I am seriously considering how to proceed in the future. Does a private insolvency make sense? Will this serve private creditors? Do I tell everyone involved about my addiction? Does my partner deserve a partner like me? Should I inform my employer? What do I tell my landlord? How do I make ends meet until my next salary? Questions upon questions, which I would never have had to ask myself without my addiction. My quality of life is incredibly low. I have great respect for all of you, the creators of gamblejoe, every member and all future players, however, I would like to emphasize something here again... Only play with money you don't need to live. Pay your bills and never p**s off family, friends and acquaintances. I didn't do all that and now I'm standing on the precipice looking down, but I'm still willing to turn around and walk in the right and safe direction. However, the way back from the abyss became more and more stony. However, I put all these stones there myself.

Love greetings

kvnhenne

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Anonym

Hello.

i have read with interest your contribution and can only say that it happened to me similarly. There are only a few options for you now that you should please tuen immediately:

1. stop playing right now!

2. please turn immediately with all financial documents to a Debt counselor of Caritas or other free state debt counselors. The debt counseling can apply for a private insolvency, but this can only be done if you adhere to the very strict conditions and immediately stop playing.

3. please contact your family doctor and talk openly about your gambling addiction. he can apply for therapy and refer you to a psychologist.


I was also helped to get out of my high debts (50,000). However, the conditions are very strict and if I violate them, I could even go to jail.

After 6 years you are then debt-free and can start a new life. However, loans or Dispo etc. you will no longer get in life.


Please act immediately and do not let any more time pass.

Important: Ask absolutely before the appointment with the debt counselor whether that is also free. unfortunately, many black sheep have nested in the industry to take a lot of money for debt counseling and then make you even poorer, among other things, are the lawyers. although they are basically not bad and can also help but the fee is very high.

Caritas and Co. are free and state-run.

All the best

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