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Absolutely broke, no way out, what am I going to do?
13th Aug. 2018, at 11:59 am CEST#11
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You're right...all of you. I will in no way continue to play and hope for a win, it's all bullshit anyway, at least I understood that. I also know that I have brought the soup myself.
What I would like to hear? Whether someone here has an idea, who gives one a chance? I would like to consolidate my debts to come in the future also somehow over the rounds. Has anyone had the same experience and yet found a bank that did this?
I do not want insolvency or something, I stand for my debts straight. The electricity Provider I have angemailt, on Friday already, but unfortunately no feedback from him. I can't call him from work because it's a service number and I work abroad
And the answer: Completely best Internet also cap
and live like in the 80's...... .I find not very helpful, because I work in a Unternehemen which work exclusively with Internet. Well, at home I still played the least.
Unfortunately, this is the situation now and I will find a way, even if in my eyes there is only the last way out. ... . Then nobody has the trouble anymore and my partner gets at least the hut paid by the LV.
Thanks for your advice anyway, I will try my best.
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13th Aug. 2018, at 12:31 pm CEST#12
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You probably won't be able to deal with this on your own. That you want to seek help is already a good start. Writing in this forum will certainly help you to become aware of your situation. What you can't use, however, are the sometimes strange tips in this thread. i consider "living like in the 80s" to be simply a borderline stupid statement.
You need someone who can give you some breathing room financially. Idea: let the employer give you a loan? Is your company big enough that you have a trusted person or similar? Explore savings potential. There are carpools to work etc. everywhere. Important: Block all OCs with which you have registered.
Suicide is never a way out. If your thoughts are constantly circling around it, please get into medical hands as soon as possible
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13th Aug. 2018, at 12:37 pm CEST#13
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Suicide is just cowardice anyway
That mentioned in passing
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13th Aug. 2018, at 12:52 pm CEST#14
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An AG loan would be perfect, but unfortunately my company doesn't do that.
Suicide IS cowardly, I know that too, I have already experienced 3 cases in my family, but somehow it is a solution.
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13th Aug. 2018, at 12:55 pm CEST#15
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Well, if someone commits suicide because they have been suffering day and night for 20 years despite strong painkillers, I wouldn't call that cowardice, but just as an aside. (Yes I knew such a case)
Nevertheless caution with expressions over any planned suicide. Since the authorities are faster on the spot than you can look
I know the problem and that's the real problem: You only realize that gambling is harmful when you're actually sitting on the street and then you can't get up without help. Only you don't get any help. I was also once effectively homeless. I ran from office to office, had no more button money and no one helped you, everyone just said they were not responsible and I had to go somewhere else. I can imagine that at some point you think about jumping in front of the next train.
If I hear this stupid statement, in Germany nobody must be homeless or hungry..people that is just the typical Stammtischspruch of people who are doing well. If it wasn't for my family, I would NOT have gotten back up on my own.
To the thread creator: You MUST talk to your family. the hiding game goes well for a few months, then everything collapses, I noticed it myself. You borrow money secretly, can't pay it back, borrow money again secretly, then wait behind the front door for the mail to intercept the reminders so that your partner doesn't see them. This does not work in the long run.
You have to talk to your partner. You can't do it alone. Even if it's hard. If he loves you, he will get through this with you.
And another thing: You can't go to jail for debts alone, almost nothing can happen to you if you disclose your situation and talk to people clearly. Just so. If you're not open and hide, you'll end up on the street like I did back then.
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13th Aug. 2018, at 01:23 pm CEST#16
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IMMEDIATELY
1. Get blocked in all online casinos
2. Get blocked here on Gamblejoe
3. Block the entire Internet!
Offline, however, this does not work in arcades and gambling houses, because it is unfortunately not desired by our lobby policy...
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13th Aug. 2018, at 02:01 pm CEST#17
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why be locked here? I'm trying to exchange ideas here and that really helps me a lot. Completely isolated from the outside world? What kind of life is that?
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13th Aug. 2018, at 02:19 pm CEST#18
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scotty0612 wrote on 13/08/2018 at 14:01: why get locked here? I'm trying to exchange here and something like this helps me a lot. Completely closed off from the outside world? What kind of life is that?
The way of life is called abstinence.
You have to exclude everything that lets you play.
However, why lock here I also do not understand.
Do an inpatient therapy, that is the best way to get out of the situation.
After that, do an outpatient therapy.
Private insolvency is probably also pending. With 2600€ you can pay back in the long run no 2700€ every month ðŸ"¨ðŸ˜€.
Caritas can help, also the local priest, at least to fill the fridge.
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13th Aug. 2018, at 02:23 pm CEST#19
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Yes Gambling addiction that is a real internal pressure that builds up, is really bad and yet makes so much fun to play in the casino.I have there my monthly limit, if that is exceeded then I lock the casinos for a certain period and then come as long as no longer purely there. Thanks to this blocking function, I have that quite well under control. If there were not, then I would also have a big problem. As an alternative, I then always play the rest of the month free slots at Gametwist.
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13th Aug. 2018, at 02:44 pm CEST#20
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As the other users in the thread have already written, it would be best if you would seek professional help.
It was a good step to describe your situation here in the forum, I'm sure that helps you to realize the whole situation to be able to deal with it better.
However, you must not leave it at that and dare to take the next step, and that would be first to tell your circle (partner, good friends) your situation with the gambling addiction.
This is very important so that you do not suffer from severe depression on top of all your problems because you have the feeling that you are alone.
If you feel that Gamblejoe is encouraging you to gamble, you can always block or delete your account (Profile -> Settings)
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What I would like to hear? Whether someone here has an idea, who gives one a chance? I would like to consolidate my debts to come in the future also somehow over the rounds. Has anyone had the same experience and yet found a bank that did this?
I do not want insolvency or something, I stand for my debts straight. The electricity Provider I have angemailt, on Friday already, but unfortunately no feedback from him. I can't call him from work because it's a service number and I work abroad
And the answer: Completely best Internet also cap
and live like in the 80's...... .I find not very helpful, because I work in a Unternehemen which work exclusively with Internet. Well, at home I still played the least.
Unfortunately, this is the situation now and I will find a way, even if in my eyes there is only the last way out. ... . Then nobody has the trouble anymore and my partner gets at least the hut paid by the LV.
Thanks for your advice anyway, I will try my best.
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Absolutely broke, no way out, what am I going to do?
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You need someone who can give you some breathing room financially. Idea: let the employer give you a loan? Is your company big enough that you have a trusted person or similar? Explore savings potential. There are carpools to work etc. everywhere. Important: Block all OCs with which you have registered.
Suicide is never a way out. If your thoughts are constantly circling around it, please get into medical hands as soon as possible
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Absolutely broke, no way out, what am I going to do?
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That mentioned in passing
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Absolutely broke, no way out, what am I going to do?
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Suicide IS cowardly, I know that too, I have already experienced 3 cases in my family, but somehow it is a solution.
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Absolutely broke, no way out, what am I going to do?
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Nevertheless caution with expressions over any planned suicide. Since the authorities are faster on the spot than you can look
I know the problem and that's the real problem: You only realize that gambling is harmful when you're actually sitting on the street and then you can't get up without help. Only you don't get any help. I was also once effectively homeless. I ran from office to office, had no more button money and no one helped you, everyone just said they were not responsible and I had to go somewhere else. I can imagine that at some point you think about jumping in front of the next train.
If I hear this stupid statement, in Germany nobody must be homeless or hungry..people that is just the typical Stammtischspruch of people who are doing well. If it wasn't for my family, I would NOT have gotten back up on my own.
To the thread creator: You MUST talk to your family. the hiding game goes well for a few months, then everything collapses, I noticed it myself. You borrow money secretly, can't pay it back, borrow money again secretly, then wait behind the front door for the mail to intercept the reminders so that your partner doesn't see them. This does not work in the long run.
You have to talk to your partner. You can't do it alone. Even if it's hard. If he loves you, he will get through this with you.
And another thing: You can't go to jail for debts alone, almost nothing can happen to you if you disclose your situation and talk to people clearly. Just so. If you're not open and hide, you'll end up on the street like I did back then.
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Absolutely broke, no way out, what am I going to do?
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1. Get blocked in all online casinos
2. Get blocked here on Gamblejoe
3. Block the entire Internet!
Offline, however, this does not work in arcades and gambling houses, because it is unfortunately not desired by our lobby policy...
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Absolutely broke, no way out, what am I going to do?
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The way of life is called abstinence.
You have to exclude everything that lets you play.
However, why lock here I also do not understand.
Do an inpatient therapy, that is the best way to get out of the situation.
After that, do an outpatient therapy.
Private insolvency is probably also pending. With 2600€ you can pay back in the long run no 2700€ every month ðŸ"¨ðŸ˜€.
Caritas can help, also the local priest, at least to fill the fridge.
Help is there the first step you have to do.
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It was a good step to describe your situation here in the forum, I'm sure that helps you to realize the whole situation to be able to deal with it better.
However, you must not leave it at that and dare to take the next step, and that would be first to tell your circle (partner, good friends) your situation with the gambling addiction.
This is very important so that you do not suffer from severe depression on top of all your problems because you have the feeling that you are alone.
If you feel that Gamblejoe is encouraging you to gamble, you can always block or delete your account (Profile -> Settings)
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