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Living with gambling addiction: Low point reached (Page 2)

Topic created on 08th Jan. 2022 | Page: 2 of 3 | Answers: 25 | Views: 8,436
gamble1
Legend

Low point reached

9th Jan. 2022, at 02:46 pm CET#11
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MIKE13 wrote on 09.01.2022 at 12:08 pm: @gamble1 although di music is missing when trading but blinken dut it much.
And as you say the debts are by far not my biggest problem, that can be regulated already, earn not bad (ca 2400€) and have still an zusätliches income every 3 months 2000-3000€


The worst thing that addiction has done to me is how it has changed me from a young man full of life to a selfish, bored, wrong person who has only one thing in mind the damn chart.
I always had an excuse just to sit at home alone and gamble away masses of money. Once I went to the mountain with my ex-girlfriend and what did I do, all the time secretly checked the chart.
No wonder she couldn't stand it with me anymore when I couldn't do it myself, I'm not stupid and I know what's right but I did completely the opposite.
In my life I have been through a lot and tend to the extreme.
Drugs alls I was younger, I got over it all well, then it went to competitive sports until I was there in overtraining, then came trading no drug or anything else is as dangerous for me as trading, it has broken me, and alone losszukommen is almost impossible



Thanks guys for your kind words ! It means a lot to me when you are not judged right away!




I have in my extreme time also already the one or other people for gambling neglected because it was simply more important to me but I'm out of it again and have found a healthy balance important is only that you let it stay hard for the time being, if necessary, even with lock out of banking

Then you can start after a time to look at everything soberly and you will think to yourself how could I spend such sums because even if you earn a lot it is only a deception that you do not itch because you are in the matter inside if you but at some point realize what you can do with just 100 € are back to a normal level

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MIKE13

Low point reached

9th Jan. 2022, at 03:26 pm CET#12
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gamble1 wrote on 09.01.2022 at 14:46
I have in my extreme time also already one or the other people for gambling neglected because it was simply more important to me but I've come out of it and have found a healthy balance important is only that you let it stay hard for the time being to distress also with lock out of the banking

Then you can start after a time to look at everything soberly and you will think to yourself how could I spend such sums because even if you earn a lot it is only a deception that you do not itch because you are in the matter inside if you but eventually realize what you can do with just 100 € are back to a normal level

You're totally right, I've lost touch with reality and no longer knew the real value of money, what was scho 1000 €
Eig very much!

I have now also decided to get out, at some point must be end

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Anonym

Low point reached

9th Jan. 2022, at 04:30 pm CET#13
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Marco172 wrote on 09/01/2022 at 06:14: See it as a lesson.... and do not forget money is just paper. Sometimes it comes, sometimes it goes. But it is not what life is all about. Back to the roots and basic values e.g. your family.

Good luck to you !!!!

Such wise words that just make you forget about the 57,000 euro Debt 🥰

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Anonym

Low point reached

9th Jan. 2022, at 04:46 pm CET#14
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Cona87 wrote on 09.01.2022 at 16:30
Such wise words that just make you forget the 57,000 euro Debt 🥰

He does wish him good luck, and the family thing is certainly not wrong either. The only sentence that is a little superfluous is that money is just paper. You write the 100% right now, I'm curious...

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Marco172
Rookie

Low point reached

9th Jan. 2022, at 09:03 pm CET#15
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Cona87 wrote on 09.01.2022 at 16:30
Such wise words that just make you forget the 57k Debt 🥰

Sure with air and love the 57k are also not simply disappeared. But he should not focus on the money but rediscover other simple values for him....

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R3hab
Expert

Low point reached

9th Jan. 2022, at 09:37 pm CET#16
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No matter whether Gambling addiction or crypto or shares or wad also always, search is already violent
And what you have verballert there, is already ne amount BUT it goes worse believe me, you see so some as a gambler the most violent what I have experienced, there was a man about 50j I would say a normal worker with normal wages he wins at the machine 13k
That was 2010 or so and what does the gentleman? He does not go home for 5 days changes only 200 and just loses everything
But he had no loans or debts or anything just lost his win but then I heard he committed suicide because of it

You have debts now and a bit of a stressful time but you are alive and that counts and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger

Hey man all the best for you and your family
And good luck on your way


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Blubbo33
Elite

Low point reached

10th Jan. 2022, at 10:04 am CET#17
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With so many debts, file for personal bankruptcy as soon as possible, every month counts and you're out of there sooner .

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MIKE13

Low point reached

10th Jan. 2022, at 12:56 pm CET#18
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Blubbo33 wrote on 10.01.2022 at 10:04 am: With so many debts, file for personal bankruptcy as soon as possible, every month counts and you are out of there sooner .

Would you recommend with about 50k Debt a privstinsolvenz? if I save diligently I'm after about 7-10 years my debts loose. And I can still save a little together.

Yesterday I had the conversation with my parents, I am grateful to have such a great family, they are all behind me.
They will lend me again money that I am on the account at 0.

Conditions are:


  1. credit card block

  2. Set overdraft to 0

  3. Every month a meeting with my family to discuss everything how I am doing etc

  4. Provide a bank statement every week

  5. Visit addiction counseling center and start outpatient treatment




What do you guys think about this?

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Blubbo33
Elite

Low point reached

10th Jan. 2022, at 01:39 pm CET#19
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You have to do the math, there is also an early discharge of residual Debt after 3 or 5 years

You have to read up on it, maybe you have a financial possibility to get away from it earlier

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Rainmann
Expert

Low point reached

10th Jan. 2022, at 03:01 pm CET#20
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MIKE13 wrote on 10.01.2022 at 12:56 pm
Would you recommend with about 50k Debt a privstinsolvenz? if I save diligently I am after about 7-10 years my debts loose. And I can still save a little together.

Yesterday I had the conversation with my parents, I am grateful to have such a great family, they are all behind me.
They will lend me again money that I am on the account at 0.

Conditions are:


  1. credit card block

  2. Set overdraft to 0

  3. Every month a meeting with my family to discuss everything how I am doing etc

  4. Provide a bank statement every week

  5. Visit addiction counseling center and start outpatient treatment




What do you guys think about this?

You see. Parents always stick to their children as already said very good compilation of points. If you pull it through, it will work. You can be proud of your family that they stand by you and help. Addiction counseling I hold ehr less of. The conversations with your parents and family help a lot more. I wish you much success and I think you can do it 💪💪🙏

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