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Living with gambling addiction: devastated

Topic created on 02nd Nov. 2023 | Page: 1 of 2 | Answers: 12 | Views: 2,534
koala456
Hey,

it's me again
with me went pretty much off the weeks

of course i did not stop
i have won last weekend 4 k
3 k gambled away
then 6 k won again so I was at 7k

1 week later so today is all gone
the last 350€ I got on 3.3 k paid out and deposited again
i cried like yesterday and get everything no longer in my head
I'm not a stupid person but I told my parents colleagues that I have 7 k and after the first thousand were gone again I did not want to say that I have lost again so the casino stripped me
with the last 350 € I wanted to come to 2 k and just get out
that has worked zero I have at the beginning of the month 150 € cash more not.
What do I tell my mother ..
i was so happy and now it tears me from the inside
I do not believe all this how stupid I am
i think about my girlfriend my parents how they react when they know how I am in the casino

i lost everything because I didn't want to say I lost a thousand so I put in more and more to have 7k again.

I am so young and already so broken
i could cry right back

well i will tell my mother this weekend
hopefully she will understand somehow
well i even wanted the casino to block me but they only linked to self-exclusion.

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Begbie
Elite
Life is a bitch.
The best thing that could happen to you. Sounds strange at first, but it's true. If you had to eat dry noodles and salt sticks for a few days, this is the best therapy ever. So straighten your crown and stand like a man to what happened. Gambling away wins is not a cancer diagnosis.
All the best for you...

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koala456

Begbie wrote on 02/11/2023 at 17:39: Life is a bitch.
The best thing that could happen to you. Sounds funny at first, but it is. If you had to eat dry noodles and salt sticks for a few days, this is the best therapy ever. So straighten your crown and stand like a man to what happened. Gambling away wins is not a cancer diagnosis.
All the best to you...

You are right, only the disappointment of my mother will be so great...

My girlfriend only knows that I have money not that I gamble so much... either silence or chat but she hates gambling and starts a constant discussion when I bet 5€ with a colleague

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Begbie
Elite
So mom will always love you. No matter what shit you do. The grass will grow over it. And your girlfriend, if it's important for her that you have money, get rid of it. Women come and go.
I had to go through it. Is a bad feeling, a few days or weeks biste the bogeyman, but then everything is good again.

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Jenn-R
Expert
clear the table, and if you have a problem with the game then just lock yourself away then you have your peace from the crap before it in x weeks or months just as if not even a hundred times worse is what can happen when I read through here so

good luck.

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gamble1
Legend
Begbie wrote on 02/11/2023 at 17:52: So mom will always love you. No matter what shit you do. It'll grow on you. And your girlfriend, if it's important to her that you have money, get rid of it. Women come and go.
I had to go through it. Is a bad feeling, a few days or weeks biste the bogeyman, but then everything is good again.

Well, a woman who only looks at money and a woman who thinks in the self-preservation instinct of the future and does not want a man who leaves her and the future children at the 01 without money because he has a gambling problem is probably a small difference, I would say


She discusses not because she wants to have cars and bags but because she thinks it's stupid 5 € to bet (which it actually is with money you should not play) and just women are in such things if they do not play themselves actually the reasonable part

@TE If you get your mom on board let her control your finances she will give you money what you need (not lie really only what you need) and you have no account or online banking if she wants to help you and give money or give you brings you exactly 0.0 the addiction will rule it because even if it's hard you tried and you did not make it and so it will go on and on until you have no money and no family and friends if you do not let you help and that includes a piece of giving up control

You can do this stand your ground don't let a stupid addiction take your life away

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Falko
Icon
If he gives the confession to his wife, then that will lead to the fact that she looks at him from the moment exactly on the fingers, that such a thing does not happen again and certainly threaten him then also, what the next time at consequences entails. As I understand this, it is here only a large profit sum that he had again completely gambled away. It could also have been worse if he had taken this amount as a loan and thus now sat on a mountain of debt. So you can summarize it, was crap but despite that still come away with a black eye and learn something from it.

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needle34
Expert

koala456 wrote on 02/11/2023 at 17:23: Hey,

it's me again
i had a lot going on during the weeks

of course i did not stop
i have won last weekend 4 k
3 k gambled away
then 6 k won again so I was at 7k

1 week later so today is all gone
the last 350€ I got on 3.3 k paid out and deposited again
i cried like yesterday and get everything no longer in my head
I'm not a stupid person but I told my parents colleagues that I have 7 k and after the first thousand were gone again I did not want to say that I have lost again so the casino stripped me
with the last 350 € I wanted to come to 2 k and just get out
that has worked zero I have at the beginning of the month 150 € cash more not.
What do I tell my mother ..
i was so happy and now it tears me from the inside
I do not believe all this how stupid I am
i think about my girlfriend my parents how they react when they know how I am in the casino

i lost everything because I didn't want to say I lost a thousand so I put in more and more to have 7k again.

I am so young and already so broken
i could cry right back

well i will tell my mother this weekend
hopefully she will understand somehow
well i even wanted the casino to block me but they only linked to self-exclusion.

It's only money not I know it sounds hard but the money is gone, it's not coming back. The thought was you get it back I know that. I have gambled away in 16 years about 2 million. Of course something came back but not millions. I also always have phases where I ball and lose control. I can give you a Tip Oasis lock, 1 year your family friends confess everything. Start with fitness sports and invest your time in life and especially in yourself. Please forget about this 6-7k that is nothing. It is gone make a line under it and change yourself.

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koala456

needle34 wrote on 03.11.2023 at 01:32:

It's only money not more I know it sounds hard but the money is gone it's not coming back .The thought was you get it back I know that. I have gambled away in 16 years about 2 million. Of course something came back but not millions. I also always have phases where I ball and lose control. I can give you a Tip Oasis lock, 1 year your family friends confess everything. Start with fitness sports and invest your time in life and especially in yourself. Please forget about this 6-7k that is nothing. It is gone make a line under it and change yourself.

Yes, I always think to myself that it is only 6-7k to the end of my life is nothing.

I am already active in sports
I have to do a lot with friends etc.
Only if they want to go shopping and I do not buy anything after x times then they will check it too
well there's nothing you can do about it I'll go to my mum on sunday or best next sunday there's only her there and let's see how it goes

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roccoammo11
Expert

koala456 wrote on 03.11.2023 at 09:34:

Yes that's what I always think to myself that it's only 6-7 k around at the end of my life is nothing.

Sporty I am already active
I have to do with friends a lot etc.
Only if they want to go shopping and I do not buy anything after x times then they will check it too
well there is nothing you can do about it I'll go to my mum on sunday or best next sunday there is only her there and let's see how it will be

let yourself be blocked everywhere, otherwise you'll try to get everything back at the next opportunity. think of your mom & girlfriend & keep your head up - everything will be fine if you really draw a line under it!

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