Counter question. Why then do people often write in the forum how many houses they have, what kind of swanky cars they can afford, how much they earn? Are they crying out for attention, recognition and the idea of putting themselves above others and seeing themselves as something better? That's what creates envy and resentment among those who don't have it so good.
Dear Patizi, you are mixing the forum with real life. You are assuming that the disclosure of wealth automatically goes hand in hand with envy and resentment. I can reassure you that there are plenty of examples where the exact opposite is the case. Take a look at Holland, where a lot of people talk about their earnings. The neighbor is also happy when you have a new car in front of the garage and the price is no secret. People are happy for other people that they are doing well financially, especially family and friends.
Surely you will at least have an idea of how your family and friends are doing financially. If they have "more" than you, does that really trigger envy and resentment in you? In that case, it would say a lot about you, because what kind of son/friend would you be if you associated negative emotions with your loved ones being financially better off than you?
The important thing is that you judge people by their hearts and not by their finances.
Only then will you find friends who are happy for you when you're doing well.
I'm not mixing things up. You have resentment and envy on and off the internet. Let me correct you a little. I'm not assuming anything, but I know that a disclosed fortune leads to resentment and envy. Not for everyone, but it does. Hostility is inevitable, especially on the Internet. It's different in private. It was also public in this context. You read it, I read it, Slotliebe reads it and even if we knew who it was, we'd be fine. But user xy f**ks it off for whatever reason. The next time there's a little discussion, user XY might start alluding to it. How do you prevent that? By not disclosing what you have in the first place. Unfortunately, there are people who are hostile towards you for it.
I now have the feeling that you are simply mixing things up. My take clearly goes to the public, forums, etc. You're completely turning it into something private. But even there I don't care what someone has. Unless they have little or nothing.
XuodanayboJanxiXeaee wrote on 23.05.2025 at 11:16: Counter question. Then why do people often write in the forum how many houses they have, what swanky cars they can afford, how much they earn. Cries for attention, recognition and the idea of putting themselves above others and seeing themselves as something better? That's what creates envy and resentment among those who don't have it so good.
I don't like it when someone brags like that either. Got it and that's it.
But your conclusion is also generally what I'm describing. In your case, someone is deliberately bragging. In the other case, someone is persuaded to possibly make a public statement. The person thinks nothing of it and simply responds. But a third person then harbors resentment and envy. And then it starts. I maintain that it's nobody's business in public and even in private the wind can change so quickly that "I don't begrudge you!" becomes "You think you're better because you have more money!". It even happens in the family. But of course I see it differently in private than in public.
This stupid talk is hard to take, if you don't care then ignore it and fine but I celebrate people who have made it and can be proud of what they have in life, envy is your own problem and says more about you.
What a pointless discussion, the person with the most coins would certainly not trigger envy and resentment in me, such nonsense
R3hab wrote on 23.05.2025 at 19:01: This stupid babble is hard to give yourself, if it doesn't itch you then ignore it and well but I celebrate people who have made it and can be proud of it if they have something in life, envy is the problem of oneself and says more about oneself.
What a pointless discussion, the person with the most coins would certainly not trigger envy and resentment in me, such nonsense
This German society is just completely wrong
Maybe not for you and others, but for others it is. Have you forgotten how many people get upset because the "same" people win in the monthly prize draw? There's also a bit of envy involved.
R3hab wrote on 23.05.2025 at 19:01: This stupid babble is hard to give yourself, if it doesn't itch you then ignore it and well but I celebrate people who have made it and can be proud of it if they have something in life, envy is the problem of oneself and says more about oneself.
What a pointless discussion, the person with the most coins would certainly not trigger envy and resentment in me, such nonsense
This German society is just completely wrong
Then don't read it! <---- Quasi your recommendation for others But seriously, as soon as you read my name, just ignore it. You've done a great job in the past. I would be very grateful if you could keep it up
What is pointless and what is not is not written in any book and you don't decide that for me either. I discuss what I want and with whom I want. Since you can't discuss things on your own and need a counterpart, I also speak for everyone else who responds and discusses it with me. Everyone is allowed to discuss as they wish!
Arrive in today's society and then we can...oh no... please just keep ignoring me!
And German society includes you. If you think you're completely out of line, that's ok. That doesn't bother me either. Think you are whatever you want to think you are but don't automatically include everyone.
Maybe not for you and others, but for others it is. Have you forgotten how many people get upset because the "same" people win in the monthly raffle? There's also a bit of envy involved.
It's just okay if someone is interested and curious, it's nothing bad if someone here has a lot of coins, the only reason why you shouldn't say that is that many people here would write to those people and beg for coins, because most people here simply have no pride and honor
patizi chill your base for me you are just funny with your statements, don't feel special haha
Envy, what nonsense. If someone has saved up a lot of coins, why should you be jealous? The fact that there are extreme addicts here in the forum who would sell their grandma for a Paysafe is nothing new. There are even some who borrow something and then disappear forever
It's supposed to be envy if someone isn't drawn in the lottery for half a year. Seriously? I don't see any envy there at all, but the complete justification for expressing your displeasure at being ignored, even though you have fulfilled the same requirements as the others in the pot. Even if it's only €20
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I'm not mixing things up. You have resentment and envy on and off the internet. Let me correct you a little. I'm not assuming anything, but I know that a disclosed fortune leads to resentment and envy. Not for everyone, but it does. Hostility is inevitable, especially on the Internet. It's different in private. It was also public in this context. You read it, I read it, Slotliebe reads it and even if we knew who it was, we'd be fine. But user xy f**ks it off for whatever reason. The next time there's a little discussion, user XY might start alluding to it. How do you prevent that? By not disclosing what you have in the first place. Unfortunately, there are people who are hostile towards you for it.
I now have the feeling that you are simply mixing things up. My take clearly goes to the public, forums, etc. You're completely turning it into something private. But even there I don't care what someone has. Unless they have little or nothing.
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I don't like it when someone brags like that either. Got it and that's it.
But your conclusion is also generally what I'm describing. In your case, someone is deliberately bragging. In the other case, someone is persuaded to possibly make a public statement. The person thinks nothing of it and simply responds. But a third person then harbors resentment and envy. And then it starts. I maintain that it's nobody's business in public and even in private the wind can change so quickly that "I don't begrudge you!" becomes "You think you're better because you have more money!". It even happens in the family. But of course I see it differently in private than in public.
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What a pointless discussion, the person with the most coins would certainly not trigger envy and resentment in me, such nonsense
This German society is simply completely wrong
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Maybe not for you and others, but for others it is. Have you forgotten how many people get upset because the "same" people win in the monthly prize draw? There's also a bit of envy involved.
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Then don't read it! <---- Quasi your recommendation for others But seriously, as soon as you read my name, just ignore it. You've done a great job in the past. I would be very grateful if you could keep it up
What is pointless and what is not is not written in any book and you don't decide that for me either. I discuss what I want and with whom I want. Since you can't discuss things on your own and need a counterpart, I also speak for everyone else who responds and discusses it with me. Everyone is allowed to discuss as they wish!
Arrive in today's society and then we can...oh no... please just keep ignoring me!
And German society includes you. If you think you're completely out of line, that's ok. That doesn't bother me either. Think you are whatever you want to think you are but don't automatically include everyone.
Frapi gets it. Exactly what he says!!!!!!
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It's just okay if someone is interested and curious, it's nothing bad if someone here has a lot of coins, the only reason why you shouldn't say that is that many people here would write to those people and beg for coins, because most people here simply have no pride and honor
patizi chill your base for me you are just funny with your statements, don't feel special haha
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It's supposed to be envy if someone isn't drawn in the lottery for half a year. Seriously? I don't see any envy there at all, but the complete justification for expressing your displeasure at being ignored, even though you have fulfilled the same requirements as the others in the pot. Even if it's only €20
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