himmel80 wrote on 05.06.2023 at 20:07: you think it's ok when a work colleague calls you "goofball"!
if you ever make a mistake that is unimportant. i think that is off ...
Lol handkerchief? It's harmless. There's much harsher vocabulary.
that's true, but in such a sheltered workshop for the disabled, I think it's rather not ok. That's why you are there.
i can imagine that it's very hard on the construction site, where no one gives a smile, and they throw swear words around each other's ears
Teasing and teasing each other doesn't always have to be negative. This can also promote social bonding. You probably just have to be a little more forceful and say something appropriate back. Then both laugh about it at the end.
Begbie wrote on 05.06.2023 at 20:42:
Teasing and teasing each other doesn't always have to be negative. It can also promote social bonding. Probably just need to get a little punchier and say something appropriate back. Then both laugh about it in the end.
ok can I also say idiot? is almost the same as goofball. But this is not my level or way. I reject such a thing.
himmel80 wrote on 05.06.2023 at 20:45:ok can I also say idiot? is almost the same as Dussel. But such a thing is not at all my level or kind. I reject such things.
What happened there that your colleague called you a goofball ?
What was going on there that your colleague called you a goofball ?
i have not found the plug of a power strip, well I was already a little blind in the moment.
But he also makes mistakes nevertheless I do not say, Dussel or something .
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himmel80 wrote on 05.06.2023 at 20:52:
i didn't find the plug of a power strip, well i was already a bit blind at that moment
But he also makes mistakes nevertheless I do not say, goofball or something .
So if he only said that once there, I don't think it's so bad. Dussel is really still very harmless. Don't take it so much to heart, and you can return the favor when the opportunity arises.
himmel80 wrote on 05.06.2023 at 20:45:
ok can i also say idiot? is almost the same as goofball. But such a thing is not at all my level or kind. I reject such a thing.
The term "idiot" would be perhaps a bit too harshly chosen as a supposed retort, because it can sound kind of unpleasant. Maybe something like "you whistle"...that also has something of a certain kind of teasing. Bottom line, I would not attach too much importance to today's incident...in any case, you are now the one who has a low blow free Or you just let it be, because "The wiser gives in" was here in the context already and often you have nothing to "pay back" to get out of certain circumstances in the end but somehow better.I find revenge, for example, not sweet, but sometimes unnecessary, because there are more important things.
himmel80 wrote on 05.06.2023 at 20:07: you think it's ok when a work colleague calls you "goofball"!
if you make a mistake that is unimportant. i think that's out of line ...
Well, there are worse things I would say.
Even though I wasn't there and don't know the colleague, if someone called me a "goofball", I would find it rather funny, or at least I wouldn't take it to heart.
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Lol handkerchief? It's harmless. There's much harsher vocabulary.
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that's true, but in a sheltered workshop for the disabled, I don't think it's okay. That's why you're there.
i can imagine that it's very hard on the construction site, no one gives a smile, and they throw swear words around each other's ears
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Just ignore him and good !
Think your part of the wiser gives in!
You can do it!
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Teasing and teasing each other doesn't always have to be negative. This can also promote social bonding. You probably just have to be a little more forceful and say something appropriate back. Then both laugh about it at the end.
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ok can I also say idiot? is almost the same as goofball. But this is not my level or way. I reject such a thing.
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What happened there that your colleague called you a goofball ?
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i have not found the plug of a power strip, well I was already a little blind in the moment.
But he also makes mistakes nevertheless I do not say, Dussel or something .
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So if he only said that once there, I don't think it's so bad. Dussel is really still very harmless. Don't take it so much to heart, and you can return the favor when the opportunity arises.
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The term "idiot" would be perhaps a bit too harshly chosen as a supposed retort, because it can sound kind of unpleasant. Maybe something like "you whistle"...that also has something of a certain kind of teasing. Bottom line, I would not attach too much importance to today's incident...in any case, you are now the one who has a low blow free Or you just let it be, because "The wiser gives in" was here in the context already and often you have nothing to "pay back" to get out of certain circumstances in the end but somehow better.I find revenge, for example, not sweet, but sometimes unnecessary, because there are more important things.
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Well, there are worse things I would say.
Even though I wasn't there and don't know the colleague, if someone called me a "goofball", I would find it rather funny, or at least I wouldn't take it to heart.
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