chmi77 wrote on 11/21/2017 at 10:36 pm: Been through something like you hundreds of times. Sucks big time, no question about it. When I see my annual loss balance, which is close to 100,000 EUR, such thoughts come to me too, but I ultimately don't feel like dying, it goes on, albeit with significantly less cash in the cross than before.
1) Take a breather, maybe a beer (one not ten)
2) Take a sheet of paper and analyze your situation rationally speak, what is good, what is bad, debts, problems, etc..
3) If your problems are purely financial and you are not on the verge of jail for acquisitive crime or have debts to the mafia, everything is solvable. Seek a Debt counselor. I already had half a million debts and fought my way out. It can be done. Tough, but doable.
3a) If your problems are just gambling, you should seriously think about getting out. Seek help. Caritas, Blue Cross, etc. Get blocked everywhere. Go to a debt counselor. Talk to your family.
3b) If the problems are more diverse, you should seek further help.
4) Do not make rash stories, try to get distance. When I lose fat again, I go out, walk a bit, collect myself. Distract. Pain subsides, takes a while, but every day it gets better.
All the best and remember where you can be in 10 years. You can leave everything behind and be on top. Happy, whatever that means for you.
By the way, I haven't gambled for a month because I've lost so much lately and I'm fine, I don't miss it. There is also a life without gambling, right now you have tunnel vision but every day it gets better.
In this sense. Be strong, you can do this
Glad to hear you've been "sober" for 4 weeks! 😊 keep going, once you get through the beginning, you'll get through the rest!
So, and now it would still be time to see a sign from the TE ðŸ™"
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And when the relapse comes. It's not great but it's part of the disease of addiction and it will move you forward in some way. If there is one thing I have learned in my 6 months of therapy, (not Gambling addiction but also gambling addicts), it is 1. talk about it immediately if you are at Risk with a trusted person. 2. Try to hang in there, the "pressure" will go away (sometimes faster than you think, and with time faster and faster) and 3. be worth it to YOURSELF. Get up in the morning and tell yourself with me no more. All the best and I hope you still have people around you who mean well with you.
Mh...Monday night the police stood in front of the door and has meant, someone has drawn their attention to this text here.
That's why I was directly admitted to the psychiatric ward. But hey, thanks for that, that was necessary somewhere.
On Tuesday I'll start an inpatient addiction treatment and without this "unwanted stay" I would never have taken this step. then it goes with me again upwards.
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Glad to hear you've been "sober" for 4 weeks! 😊 keep going, once you get through the beginning, you'll get through the rest!
So, and now it would still be time to see a sign from the TE ðŸ™"
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Exactly ðŸ'
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All the best and I hope you still have people around you who mean well with you.
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About time! We were worried since you wrote something about suicide in the thread and then didn't get back to us. How are you doing at the moment?
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That's why I was directly admitted to the psychiatric ward. But hey, thanks for that, that was necessary somewhere.
On Tuesday I'll start an inpatient addiction treatment and without this "unwanted stay" I would never have taken this step. then it goes with me again upwards.
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I wish you a good time
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