Does the Oasis lockdown also apply in Austria and the Netherlands?
4th Feb. 2024, at 01:10 pm CET#16
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They are not making this up, because
The main sponsor of the EU is the FRG
Plus billions in taxpayers' money that goes abroad
from Israel to cycle paths in Peru to occupation costs of the Allies. Everything has to be paid for. You don't really know where to get it from anymore... Sports betting, casino advertising on TV every day
working until 70 and and and the gambling thing was only introduced because of the tax.
Every country has been cooking its own soup with this strategy for about 10 years. I don't envy the Spanish or the French, for example, because it's all similarly questionable what happens there with the tax money. I mean they don't have proper cycle paths and footpaths, the money goes to the string-pullers as always and
Then they call for donations for the 3rd world Sos children and and that's all a farce and even crazier there are quite a few mostly female pensioners who shoot assets into unknown accounts. I can only laugh about it, I mean the whole thing on a large scale.
Does the Oasis lockdown also apply in Austria and the Netherlands?
4th Feb. 2024, at 01:14 pm CET#17
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gamble1 wrote on 03.02.2024 at 22:51
Yes but we don't know the reasons at all, the TE may well be bursting with masculinity and has had himself locked so that she feels better but even if he lets his partner forbid him to do things as long as this happens without physical or psychological violence, he can live as he wants
I wouldn't describe this as being effeminate across the board
I won't write to them, especially as I haven't been told what to do.
Happybet brought it on themselves and it's a farce that they're still advertising their scam site in the steelworks double pass.
Everything is still a farce. Flying tennis balls as if anyone was itching.
One of the reasons is that I have a net loss of 2 million euros in the last 6 years with my gambling. Although in the meantime I was briefly, for a week, well over a million in the black. And, as you rightly suspect, she is (justifiably) afraid for our future if I gamble away the rest and everything.
If there was an option to be blocked online, I would do it for her.
But even if I get myself banned from all the casinos I'm already registered with, I'll just register with another one tonight when I feel the pressure to gamble again.
And if Cheeseburger has never actually had a partner (regardless of gender, as we've already discussed above), something to think about.
Everyone has certain desires, ideas, likes, dislikes, absolute no-gos and a thousand other things.
For example, some people want fidelity in a relationship and don't want to accept it if their partner is in bed with five other people every week.
People with some very significant deficits might see it as one person wanting to dictate to the other.
Strong personalities who know who they are and what they want, and are not emotionally crippled, ask themselves what needs and what fears my partner has. And then decide for themselves by weighing up what they want and what is most important to them and what they do. Then you're not told what to do. Instead, you decide according to your own needs.
For example, if my girlfriend is afraid that I'll gamble away all our money until we have nothing left and our relationship is very important to me because I'm happy with her, then I'm very happy not to go to the casino at night. Where it would really make sense for me to stop completely.
A relationship means being considerate of each other and possibly having to give up something nice in order to get something even nicer.
...
Then there's the problem of a massive addiction. It doesn't care if you actually want something else. No matter how much you want to do something for someone else, for yourself, for your partner or for both of you together.
Addiction can really dictate things to you and force you to do things you don't want to do. Then you really are a poor, stupid, helpless guy
Thanks for your honest words, I always think it's great when someone shares their story here - it often helps some people to just write about it, especially when it comes to addiction
So do I understand correctly that you want to take the normal opportunities to play but keep a back door open if you really want to play? How do you tell your partner when you go gambling or do you do everything in secret?
If you do the latter, my recommendation is to try not to do it at all and to look for support to go gambling secretly and to lie to your partner although the problems are known can be very stressful for the relationship I don't mean if you have a relapse but to call it a relapse at all you should try to stop it
Gambling gives you nothing at the end of the day that a fulfilling relationship can't give you and sure it's extremely hard to give up an addiction but when you do believe me you feel like a new person and it's worth a try don't you think?
There are also many counselors here on the site who can help you anonymously you can find them at the bottom of the page next to the GJ team and in addition you still have your partner you have the big advantage she already knows the problem so not many people with Gambling addiction have such a starting situation
@Touchy123
Yes, but then you'll stay blocked and it won't automatically delete itself, so what do you want to do?
Does the Oasis lockdown also apply in Austria and the Netherlands?
19th Feb. 2024, at 08:25 am CET#19
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Hello,
i can tell you for sure that OASIS only applies in Germany. It does not apply to foreign providers. Maybe you should think about how important your girlfriend is to you. I think it's really bad if you have to play in secret.
Maybe you need help. If that's the case, write to me directly. I work at a specialist counseling center for gambling addiction.
Does the Oasis lockdown also apply in Austria and the Netherlands?
19th Feb. 2024, at 11:52 am CET#20
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You'd better go to outpatient therapy and be honest with yourself if you start lying to gamble for an hour on vacation
It will only get worse.
Talk to your girlfriend and tell her that it's bothering you, so she can support you when things get hard again.
The pressure you're talking about usually only lasts 15 to 20 minutes and then it goes away
I knew a guy who first banned himself in Germany and continued playing abroad.
The end of the story was that his wife filed for divorce and left with the kids
He made up lies like something out of a movie just to fly abroad to play for a day.
Maybe that will help you, you don't want it to get that far, do you?
Write to Susanne, see what there is that can help you, because you are also making your problem your girlfriend's problem.
Good luck
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The main sponsor of the EU is the FRG
Plus billions in taxpayers' money that goes abroad
from Israel to cycle paths in Peru to occupation costs of the Allies. Everything has to be paid for. You don't really know where to get it from anymore... Sports betting, casino advertising on TV every day
working until 70 and and and the gambling thing was only introduced because of the tax.
Every country has been cooking its own soup with this strategy for about 10 years. I don't envy the Spanish or the French, for example, because it's all similarly questionable what happens there with the tax money. I mean they don't have proper cycle paths and footpaths, the money goes to the string-pullers as always and
Then they call for donations for the 3rd world Sos children and and that's all a farce and even crazier there are quite a few mostly female pensioners who shoot assets into unknown accounts. I can only laugh about it, I mean the whole thing on a large scale.
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I won't write to them, especially as I haven't been told what to do.
Happybet brought it on themselves and it's a farce that they're still advertising their scam site in the steelworks double pass.
Everything is still a farce. Flying tennis balls as if anyone was itching.
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Thanks for your honest words, I always think it's great when someone shares their story here - it often helps some people to just write about it, especially when it comes to addiction
So do I understand correctly that you want to take the normal opportunities to play but keep a back door open if you really want to play? How do you tell your partner when you go gambling or do you do everything in secret?
If you do the latter, my recommendation is to try not to do it at all and to look for support to go gambling secretly and to lie to your partner although the problems are known can be very stressful for the relationship I don't mean if you have a relapse but to call it a relapse at all you should try to stop it
Gambling gives you nothing at the end of the day that a fulfilling relationship can't give you and sure it's extremely hard to give up an addiction but when you do believe me you feel like a new person and it's worth a try don't you think?
There are also many counselors here on the site who can help you anonymously you can find them at the bottom of the page next to the GJ team and in addition you still have your partner you have the big advantage she already knows the problem so not many people with Gambling addiction have such a starting situation
@Touchy123
Yes, but then you'll stay blocked and it won't automatically delete itself, so what do you want to do?
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i can tell you for sure that OASIS only applies in Germany. It does not apply to foreign providers. Maybe you should think about how important your girlfriend is to you. I think it's really bad if you have to play in secret.
Maybe you need help. If that's the case, write to me directly. I work at a specialist counseling center for gambling addiction.
Best regards
Susanne
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It will only get worse.
Talk to your girlfriend and tell her that it's bothering you, so she can support you when things get hard again.
The pressure you're talking about usually only lasts 15 to 20 minutes and then it goes away
I knew a guy who first banned himself in Germany and continued playing abroad.
The end of the story was that his wife filed for divorce and left with the kids
He made up lies like something out of a movie just to fly abroad to play for a day.
Maybe that will help you, you don't want it to get that far, do you?
Write to Susanne, see what there is that can help you, because you are also making your problem your girlfriend's problem.
Good luck
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